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"It happened..."

I wrote a huge post on this but my computer froze and I lost it all before I can post it. Therefore I can not be bothered doing it again and shall give you the abridge version.

Christina and me, agree, we can never go out cos, age = people would think it's iffy, Age = can't move in together cos I am still a student living with parents.

I don't feel too sad, settled that matter on good terms, was kind of expected. Fell more like I have just been told I can't get something I've been lead to believe I can have for years. THat kind of feeling.

Still going to be good friends. "I love you as a friend xxx" said Christina. Still want to be good mates with her. Have plans together for the next few weeks. Going to talk more tomorrow when we meet.

Don't know if we are still going to be sexual together. Only difference is we both agree it can never become a relationship. Will find out soon though. I am not sure if that's the best thing though. Feeling quite s**t right now.

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Right there's it all in note form. As you can see I'm pretty upset:(

Hmmm I am getting mixed messages now. We are apparently she wants to meet up and do all these things with me as a friend. I think she just wanted to make sure I knew that we could never be together as a couple. It's hard to tell though until we meet up how "close" we're going to be as close friends. Urgh it's all so confusing.

Thats not very nice Just Tinka

buh

*Dj scratching*

She obviously puts her feelings about how she appears to her friends above her feelings for you.

Personally I'd loose her as a friend as quickly as possible.

She also sounds quite superficial from your description.

Mabye that's harsh, but I'm harsh to people who are superficial.

That's not very nice SHEEPY. Ohwell, I am having a war with my parents right now so now I'm practically over it because my problems just became big. GIGANTIC in proportion to this.

Good, I hope your upset.

Being friends is cool but rarely works

I hate the whole "being friends" S**t. Its like women where takin aside in school and taught how to do it the most painfull way possible.

Timmargh wrote:
> Cub!st wrote:
> Feeling quite s*** right now.
> *****
>
> You probably assumed someone would say this: you'll get over it.
>
> Take it from someone who has had many rejections from members of the
> opposite sex and always felt crap afterwards - one morning you'll
> wake up and realise you don't feel s*** anymore.

Ah well.

Go and jerk off in some bins to remember her.

I.e, get drunk.

Solves nothing, but feels good at the time.

Cub!st wrote:
> Feeling quite s*** right now.
*****

You probably assumed someone would say this: you'll get over it.

Take it from someone who has had many rejections from members of the opposite sex and always felt crap afterwards - one morning you'll wake up and realise you don't feel s*** anymore.