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"It happened..."

I wrote a huge post on this but my computer froze and I lost it all before I can post it. Therefore I can not be bothered doing it again and shall give you the abridge version.

Christina and me, agree, we can never go out cos, age = people would think it's iffy, Age = can't move in together cos I am still a student living with parents.

I don't feel too sad, settled that matter on good terms, was kind of expected. Fell more like I have just been told I can't get something I've been lead to believe I can have for years. THat kind of feeling.

Still going to be good friends. "I love you as a friend xxx" said Christina. Still want to be good mates with her. Have plans together for the next few weeks. Going to talk more tomorrow when we meet.

Don't know if we are still going to be sexual together. Only difference is we both agree it can never become a relationship. Will find out soon though. I am not sure if that's the best thing though. Feeling quite s**t right now.

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Right there's it all in note form. As you can see I'm pretty upset:(

Being someone's biatch just to get sex isn't worth it in my opinion.

If they say jump: don't jump.

Hedfix wrote:
> Sounds like it's might be building up to ****-buddy time.
>
> If so stick with it.

this is where being friends is easy.

I'm friends with a good few lasses, some of them are ugly which helps because I can talk to them normally without staring at their boobs or something.

Some lads find it hard to be friends with girls but they're usually like "My like woman, breasts, mmm" in their hunter-gatherer slur. Being friends with girls is ultimately useful. You can't get drunk on cheap ale and play on the playstation until 3 in the morning with them and list which celebrities you'd shag the hardest; but you can learn stuff about women which will ultimately make you better in relationships and make you a better person*



[S]* who gets more sex

It's hard being friends with girls. If they're nice you either fancy them and get depressed that you're just friends, or you were going out and now it's just awkward.

Being friends with ugly girls is far easier.

SHEEPY wrote:
> Being friends is cool but rarely works

Yeah that's true. Most relationship, or breakup, has the "we'll always be friends" thing but it is rarely kept to.

Sounds like it's might be building up to ****-buddy time.

If so stick with it.

Well she doesn't seem to want a relationship, but you still might get your end off, so look on the bright side.

THank you, thank you. Anyway yeh. I met up with her today and we were both quite quiet so Christina asked what was wrong and I started to talk and she still wants to be friend and doesn't want us to fall out or anything but we just left with a hug and made some plans for the future. I told her I hadn't gotten over her yet though although I really want us to friends. Apprently I'm "more like a brother" and one of the closest friends she's got which is some consolation I guess...

"Don't know if we are still going to be sexual together"

Quote of the day, week, month, year, decade - simply amazing.

having just recieved the "i'd like us to be friends" line after 3 years together, i can empathise with your pain Cub!st :(

sucks ass!!