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"It happened..."

I wrote a huge post on this but my computer froze and I lost it all before I can post it. Therefore I can not be bothered doing it again and shall give you the abridge version.

Christina and me, agree, we can never go out cos, age = people would think it's iffy, Age = can't move in together cos I am still a student living with parents.

I don't feel too sad, settled that matter on good terms, was kind of expected. Fell more like I have just been told I can't get something I've been lead to believe I can have for years. THat kind of feeling.

Still going to be good friends. "I love you as a friend xxx" said Christina. Still want to be good mates with her. Have plans together for the next few weeks. Going to talk more tomorrow when we meet.

Don't know if we are still going to be sexual together. Only difference is we both agree it can never become a relationship. Will find out soon though. I am not sure if that's the best thing though. Feeling quite s**t right now.

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Right there's it all in note form. As you can see I'm pretty upset:(

Hahahaha

Genius, Icarus.

Yes, always a miserable moment when that happens. If you have a photo of her, I recommend scanning it into your computer and pasting it over various porn models, so you can revisit the glory days forever and ever.

Or just X. Then Christina will know she's been replaced *devil horns grow on my head* ANyway nah I don't want to hurt her actually. I still ove her and want to be great friends with her. Just it's hard when she doesn't feel the same way so I feel it's ok to find someone else ASAP.

I have an idea; call her Y, or maybe X-2 for that true rebound feeling.

SHEEPY wrote:
> Problem with being friends is that each is constantly trying to
> convince the other they're better off now. Leading to fakeness and
> more hurt.

FUDGE! I didn't read your post before I posted mine. Errrr I'm not that petty *tries to find edit button for latest post*

MWAHAHAHAHAHAHhahahahahahaha! I just got introduced to this lass by a mate of mine and started flirting with her. She ended up chatting me up lol! Her exacts words at one part where "You're cute too, I bet you pull" with a nice little smile. This is exactly what I need to get over Christina. ALthough it is kind of soon. Ohwell. We'll see what happens. I got her phone number :D *is sickeningly happy*

Problem with being friends is that each is constantly trying to convince the other they're better off now. Leading to fakeness and more hurt.

I'm still going on holiday my ex and some friends, think a little bit of ****-buddy will be on cards. Fine with me.

I know what you mean though, it's difficult when the possibility of sex is on the table especially if you haven't had much/any before.

Self respect is more important than sex in the long run although if you're clever you can twist situations to your advantage.

Personally I'd find out what turns her on and then go for it in a casual and non-threatening way, but that's just me.

Ah, well...

you have to find some way to drag your feet a bit about whatever it is she wants you to do.

Lets her persuade you if it isn't something you want to do, don't just go 'oh ok' and stick a pitchfork in your head etc. :D

Oh and if you still don't want to do it then stand your ground and say no.

You're better off being someone you want to be than being some lapdog, unless you want to be a lapdog? Do you?

Hedfix wrote:
> Being someone's biatch just to get sex isn't worh it my opinion
> though.
>
> If they say jump: don't jump.

That's my problem. If Christina said jump I'd get the trampoline.