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"Advice about an affair"

Hi

My friend had an affair with a guy. Unfortunately hes got a girlfriend and shes married. She finished it when her husband found out and she really regrets it all. This guy still wants to sleep with my friend even though he says he loves his girlfriend. My friend thought she loved this guy, but soon found him out for what he was. His girlfriend dosen't know. Do you think she should tell her, or leave it?

Is this person you?

And he/she should just go for the person they love the most.

Tell all. Spill the beans. And embellish the truth to cause maximum damage.

I bet Rach is Rosalind. You'll see.

She should know. He's scum.

Why would you ask for this kind of advice on a computer games chat forum?

The longest relationship most of these guys have had is that time they played SNES for like 20 hours straight and it was dead good.

The guy is probably one of those blokes who thinks he can cheat and get away with it. Stupid fickle fool.

Tell the guy to leave her alone or you'll tell his girlfriend.

Easy.

Gets rid of him and everything's sorted.

Rach123 wrote:
> she nearly lost her husband and this guy was
> still wanting to sleep with her. She even thought she loved him at
> one point.

she sounds just as stupid as him to get involved with someone else whilst being in a relationship. This is not just his fault because he wanted to sleep with her and she thought it might be impolite to turn him down or something...


/kilroy mode

It may be harsh, but I really think his girlfriend should know. He clearly isn't sorry for what he's done. If his girlfirend doesn't find out what a nasty piece of work he is now, she's bound to find out later when it'll hurt even more.

If he was married with kids, or seemed genuinely sorry for what he'd done, then it would be best not to tell. There's no point causing trouble just to punish him. In this case though, I think it's best for his partner that she knows.

The truth hurts, but honesty is often the best policy.

Hi

Thanks for that. Shes really upset over it and really feels that his girlfriend should know, she nearly lost her husband and this guy was still wanting to sleep with her. She even thought she loved him at one point. Hes treated her really badly and hes got away with it all scot free. It just dosen't seem right to me. Do you think he should get away with it?

Personally I think she should leave it, what someone doesnt know can't hurt them :-)