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whats up people how was your weekend???
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Rosalind wrote:
> Carl(boyf)'s Grandma went into hospital on Saturday evening with
> stomach pains. She Died last night. On Sunday Carl and I had to
> arrange for his sister to come down from university on the train to
> York where we picked her up and drove home. She was with us when we
> got the news, and both she and Carl were devestated.
>
> It's hard to deal with two people stricken with grief, and it was so
> hard for me to see Carl in so much pain.
My god.
I sorry hun. I know what its like to see someone you are close to so hurt. My grandad is suffering with brain cancer and it only getting worse. My nan is watching him wither away slowly his mentally loosing it now and his physical appearence is going down hill. My dad also and uncle are running around something chronic for them and watching them so depressed is hard.
But reading this I know it gonna get worse. I hope Carl will be a little better soon. takes time though
> Carl(boyf)'s Grandma went into hospital on Saturday evening with
> stomach pains. She Died last night. On Sunday Carl and I had to
> arrange for his sister to come down from university on the train to
> York where we picked her up and drove home. She was with us when we
> got the news, and both she and Carl were devestated.
>
> It's hard to deal with two people stricken with grief, and it was so
> hard for me to see Carl in so much pain.
My god.
I sorry hun. I know what its like to see someone you are close to so hurt. My grandad is suffering with brain cancer and it only getting worse. My nan is watching him wither away slowly his mentally loosing it now and his physical appearence is going down hill. My dad also and uncle are running around something chronic for them and watching them so depressed is hard.
But reading this I know it gonna get worse. I hope Carl will be a little better soon. takes time though
GG386 wrote:
> dancool26 wrote:
> mine sucked ive been sick all weekend
>
> i was sick to but i still had as much fun as i could
> sorry 'bout his g-ma!!!
> dancool26 wrote:
> mine sucked ive been sick all weekend
>
> i was sick to but i still had as much fun as i could
> sorry 'bout his g-ma!!!
Lil Ginge, I'm sorry to bring up stuff that hurts. Calr was shocked that it was so sudden. but I guess seeing someone you love deteriorate is worse. Even though your expecting it, its still a shock when someone dies.
Yea.
You can't compare this to that though! I see it as ok its bad he getting worse but its happening we have to deal with it. I have to love and remember moments he was ok and help my nan out. I feel so sorry for your babe though. I know aint too long till... yea. Don't be sorry. hell it helps to talk about it for once!
Hows carl's mum and stuff?
You can't compare this to that though! I see it as ok its bad he getting worse but its happening we have to deal with it. I have to love and remember moments he was ok and help my nan out. I feel so sorry for your babe though. I know aint too long till... yea. Don't be sorry. hell it helps to talk about it for once!
Hows carl's mum and stuff?
Indeed. Sudden deaths are hard to take, but at least you'll remember that person more as you'd like to, rather than as someone who has deteriorated to the point where they no longer control most of their bodily functions.
Carl's Mom is also pretty devestated, she went off on her own for a while last night, but its a big family and they all pull together when something like this happens. Unfortunatly Carl and Nita are away from the rest of the family at the moment, and with it being so sudden they could really get down in time to see her before she died. So they only have each other (and me) at the moment, but I'm doing my best to keep everything going and organise stuff to do. I don't know what else to do.
seems like your being supportive to point you can be. All you can do is be a shoulder to cry on and tell him how much you love him really. Its hard to know what to do at times like this ay! At least he has his sister and his sister has him if they was away from all family on their own it would be worse. They just need time to grieve, it gonna be hard for everyone but he will really appreciate how you hekping im sure.
Rosalind wrote:
> Carl's Mom is also pretty devestated, she went off on her own for a
> while last night, but its a big family and they all pull together
> when something like this happens. Unfortunatly Carl and Nita are
> away from the rest of the family at the moment, and with it being so
> sudden they could really get down in time to see her before she died.
> So they only have each other (and me) at the moment, but I'm doing
> my best to keep everything going and organise stuff to do. I don't
> know what else to do.
>i think your doing enough just by being there for him he'll probably need some 1 to talk to but its always good to do as much as you can for some one who will need you at a time like this
> Carl's Mom is also pretty devestated, she went off on her own for a
> while last night, but its a big family and they all pull together
> when something like this happens. Unfortunatly Carl and Nita are
> away from the rest of the family at the moment, and with it being so
> sudden they could really get down in time to see her before she died.
> So they only have each other (and me) at the moment, but I'm doing
> my best to keep everything going and organise stuff to do. I don't
> know what else to do.
>i think your doing enough just by being there for him he'll probably need some 1 to talk to but its always good to do as much as you can for some one who will need you at a time like this
I know your right. Still there is a part of me that believes that I should just be able to wave a magic wand and make everthing better. and I sort of feel like I'm failing because I can't do that. I know thats nonsense really though.
Isnt it just! When anything like this happens you just want to miraculously heal everything or change time...
Of course we can do no such thing and have to deal with it like a normal human being. But it sucks temporarily! How old was she? How old is Carl?
It might be a nice idea when he is a little less distraught to explain that although she is gone and it was sudden he had a grandma for a long time. Alot of people loose them when they are too young to remember their grandparents. Others are born without them. Trying to throw in some positive factors might do good.
Of course we can do no such thing and have to deal with it like a normal human being. But it sucks temporarily! How old was she? How old is Carl?
It might be a nice idea when he is a little less distraught to explain that although she is gone and it was sudden he had a grandma for a long time. Alot of people loose them when they are too young to remember their grandparents. Others are born without them. Trying to throw in some positive factors might do good.
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