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"Something wrong with me?"

Right, heres the scenario:

There is this beautiful girl at my college who is for some reason besotted with me and on wednesday I have been invited over because "Her parents are away" - basically it is a sex invitation for those of you who cant understand subliminals.

Anyway she is good looking, blonde hair blue eyes curvy figure and a nice person but somehow I feel bad about it, whats wrong with me ?!

I broke up with my long term girlfriend about 5 months ago and havent been with anyone since, I dont want the emotional attatchment that comes with relationships just yet but a sex offer is something I will usually jump at the chance for. But I dont know why this is different. Maybe I have gone off sex or have just gone mad.

When the time comes I will probably put my stupidity behind and have a "good time" but why do I feel weird about it. It's not me!

Maybe it'll be like the film misery, you'll get over there, she'll break both your ankles, and you'll be doomed to waste away in between daily beatings and torture ..... :D

You'll feel better about it when you wake up with her in her parent's double bed the next morning. Trust me.

Anyway, I would laugh so much if you got around there ready for sex and that wasn't the reason she invited you over.

Bouncer wrote:
> I feel bad about it for some odd reason but like most blokes I think
> with my head not with my penis


reason you feel bad is because she well into you. You 'kinda' into her.

If she is a virgin then she'd see this as much more. She is a virgin AND she female so much more comes into equation. If you not that into her then you will sleep with her knowing she well into you. You probably wont go so far as to go out with her properly etc so she will think it was more tahn what it is...

therefore hurting her feelings and loosing her 'sacredness' to someone on a one nighter

you have feelingss

Bouncer wrote:
> I feel bad about it for some odd reason but like most blokes I think
> with my head not with my penis

Aren't they the same thing?

I just found dried milk at the bottom of my pint.

Urgh

I feel bad about it for some odd reason but like most blokes I think with my head not with my penis

O good god a man with morals

Ok, so she is cute - she likes you and has asked you over.

ONE! make sure it definatly is an invitation for sex or things could go badly wrong

TWO! If you are feeling weird, not right, guilty or any of the above DONT DO IT!

My advice is if she pretty, nice person and u attracted to her then maybe go over, do 'some' stuff but tell her you like her and think it be better for both of you if you take it slower then first date. This way she feel like you actually like her for her and you will both know it werent JUST about the sex.

Bring protection. Maybe you don't have any condoms nearby, that is why you feel bad.

MUH