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"Are you the settling down type of guy!"

Not many lads take an interest of wanting to settle down with a partner and have children. Just wondered if its like that with people on these boards. Some of you might like the idea of eventually settling down, where as others may not.

Do you think you will ever find your true love, or have you found her?

Do you have or want kids?

or do you like just been single and worry about relationships as and when they happen?

Or have you been trapped in to becoming a dad, or stuck in a relationship you cant leave in fear of hurting your partner.?

Have you ever had your heart broken by someone and you dont want to risk all the pain again.

Im just curious really, and to see how many guys actually reply to it! Ive noticed some guys on the boards talk about personal stuff but its very rare guys do!

There's no way at all i'd even consider getting married. If me and my wife ever got divorced that's me basically screwed. I'd lose the house, car, everything i ever put money in i'd lose it all thanks to the 'fair and equal' divorce settlement.

Obviously amongst the bra burning the feminists forgot to address that little thing and campaign to make the divorce settlements equal. But then again they have the advantage in that anyway so why bother moaning about it eh?

Heres the plan right now:

Not get married.
Not have kids.
Die young.

Settle down with the right woman? Yes, definitely.

Kids? How many f's in 'chance'?

@ngel wrote:
> God you get everywhere!!

Yes, God is omnipresent.

Hmmn. I think it is time for bed.

Hedfix wrote:
> Curse you all and your chirpy optimism! :D

God you get everywhere!!

Curse you all and your chirpy optimism! :D

-Do you think you will ever find your true love, or have you found her?

Hopefully. Divorce rates make me slightly sceptical about the whole love thing. But hopefully.


-Do you have or want kids?

At some stage I guess. I'd be pretty worried about screwing up the whole paternal thing. But I guess I can learn...

-or do you like just been single and worry about relationships as and when they happen?

At the moment, that's about right I think.


-Or have you been trapped in to becoming a dad, or stuck in a relationship you cant leave in fear of hurting your partner.?

Nope. And I don't plan on being played like that either.
Not to say I won't be. I just don't plan on it :^S


-Have you ever had your heart broken by someone and you dont want to risk all the pain again.

Nothing got broken. But messy break-ups always make you (me) think twice about getting involved again, for a while at least.

I want to settle down eventually - have kids, a wife, nice car, build my own house.
But I'll want to get my own life sorted out first - my career and stuff like that.

I have no plan...just see what happens I guess.

I am still young mind.

No Marriage. No Kids.

That's the very definite plan.

Allowing myself to manipulated is not something I like.