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"Holding a Grudge"

I hold a grudge. For a long time.

It'd be nice not to, to forgive, move on, etc etc.

If the begrudged person hasn't changed, isn't sorry and would do the same again, can you really 'forgive' as such?

And if you can't forgive, is the only way to shake a grudge to give up caring, which requires not caring about the person either?

Thoughts?

Come on. Whose got a list then?

The sagacious one wrote:
> Funnier still was the fact that as I shoved my mate (and still mate)
> around the place I was threatening to get my brother to beat him up
> (don't ask) and was telling anyone that would listen, he'd besmirched
> my family name and would pay dearly for doing so.

*Laughing*

The sagacious one wrote:
>I was going to give her one, of my business cards

Perfect timing.

English_Bloke wrote:

> And here, we have a wild saggy. The inflamed liver, slurred noises and
> glazed look in his eyes can only mean one thing. He’s preparing to
> defend his territory.
>
> Usually these animals are at their most dangerous and unpredictable
> just after having been “blown out” by a Shelia.

That's so accurate it's uncanny. And funny too. Yeah the girl in question made a b-line for me the moment she saw me, delayed me for long enough that I missed my train home and had to get a £70 taxi, then made a point of entering her number on my mobile (I was going to give her one, of my business cards but as I reached to my pocket to retreive my wallet I noticed out of the corner of my eye, a pile of cards on the floor) then within seconds made a point of leaving with her bloke (who had just appeared from nowhere). This made saggy mad. I should have played it cool but beer make saggy not think right and he see mate who he angry with smile at him bad so he go and make badman pay.

Funnier still was the fact that as I shoved my mate (and still mate) around the place I was threatening to get my brother to beat him up (don't ask) and was telling anyone that would listen, he'd besmirched my family name and would pay dearly for doing so.

All this in front of the two single lovley birds (one with recent boob job) that he had invited to join us for the evening.

Overall a quality effort by the not so sagacious one and I have now been given the nick-name "Fury" amongst my mates.

Women!

I hate holding grudges. The only real grudge I have now is against a he-she man b*tch that tried to get with my boyfriend on several cases but I don't hate her. I even said I ok now to her, still...hard to brush off really.

Grudges are burdens though its better to forgive But i don't forget

English_Bloke wrote:
>
> WOOO! Wasn’t he a beauty!

Did you blow him off too?

*Dives and grabs Saggy round the waist pinning him to the floor*

*Puts on Steve Irwin voice*

You’re alright mate, you’re alright. I’m not gonna hurt ya.

*Looks to camera*

And here, we have a wild saggy. The inflamed liver, slurred noises and glazed look in his eyes can only mean one thing. He’s preparing to defend his territory.

Usually these animals are at their most dangerous and unpredictable just after having been “blown out” by a Shelia.

*Saggy struggles*

Wooooow there, you’re alright mate, you’re alright!

Now, I don’t wanna provoke him anymore then he already is, so I think I will just let him be on his way.

*Saggy crawls off*

WOOO! Wasn’t he a beauty!

The sagacious one wrote:
>One minute I was being blown
> out by a chick

?

I almost did the other night in the pub. One minute I was being blown out by a chick the next I was pushing my mate about, with ill intent. Sub-consciously I have issues with him. I was very pishhed but that's no excuse.

An aside to this was the fact the bouncer came steaming through the pub for me and one of my mates decided to start shoving him around, rather than stop me.

Mates hey, can't fight with them, can't fight without them. (Not that we were doing any fighting mind).

Kick your mate in the balls