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"Threesomes...."

If your girl said she would have a threesome with you and another girl, on the condition that you would also have another threesome with another guy, what would you say?


(take it as the other way around for all you female types here... :D )

It depends if it is going to be a meaningful thing or not. Plus there is the chance that your mate is better in the sack that you are and she might elope with him!

Ask yourself a new question. If your best mate asked you to partake in a threesome with him and his wife, would you say yes?

If you weren’t interested, would it change the way you acted towards the friend that asked you?

Having a threesome slowly tips you towards being a swinger - a bad thing.

I tend to believe if you're having doubts about doing it then its probably not a good idea to go ahead, as doubts can be the seeds of destruction later on. I presume you love your wife, and that sex has a strong emotional element for you because of that. Once you start crossing boundaries like that its difficult to go back emotionally. It may well be difficult for you to look at your partner with somebody else and be detached enough to see just the sex.

I think no matter how well you know yourself, your partner and your friends, you'll never really know how you'll react until it happens. Even if there was only a 5% chance that going ahead would be damaging to your relationship, is it worth the risk still? Personally, I think not.

I'm a swinger - but only on the golf course.

I agree totally with Garin's reply.

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It's interesting that there has not been one response to the mail post saying that I should go for it...

But the issue here is not that it's a problem for our relationship, or the friendship with the other people, i just dont know what it is. Though I woiuld definately be worried about having to 'perform' in front of another guy...

Slaveunit wrote:

> Though I woiuld definately be worried about having to 'perform' in
> front of another guy...

That would be very awkward, seeing your mates hard schlong, *shudders*

I'd be sick and cry.

Seeing your mate and your bird would make me sick
Seeing your mate aroused would make me sick

If my girlfriend asked me for a threesome i'd be worried she's thinking about other men in a sexual way!

Slaveunit - I think people are amazed that you would allow another man to 'do' your wife..

I certainly would never allow such a thing, you may think it has no complications on your life but who knows how things will be afterwards.

It simply depends on why you want to be involved in a threesome and if your both in agreement about certain things then go for it, but I think in everyone's mind - its not right seeing the one they love being done over by another man.

Personally, it doesn't bare thinking about but I suppose it's each to their own.