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Looking to chat with similar people with low self-esteem. Going through a rough time but trying to make some big changes.
New to freeola and chat so please be kind.
New to freeola and chat so please be kind.
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Busy_Bex wrote:
Alfonse wrote:
[i]S..So do we actually have a female poster now? Better put on my tuxedo.
Don't tell me there aren't any other ladies on here! Need some female chats too please.[/i]
Used to be and occasionally still are.
Oh, and welcome.
Alfonse wrote:
[i]S..So do we actually have a female poster now? Better put on my tuxedo.
Don't tell me there aren't any other ladies on here! Need some female chats too please.[/i]
Used to be and occasionally still are.
Oh, and welcome.
pete_21 wrote:
If that's what it's doing for you then great, stick with it but perhaps there is some possibility that a username like this could give people the wrong idea about you? As for your low self esteem, I would try and concentrate on the positive things in your life, is managing to post a thread of this kind to a bunch of strangers (who could have mocked and knocked you down even further) not a forward step? I have never been into things that the masses seemed to love (music, sport, films, TV, events etc. etc.) but you know what, it really doesn't matter, never try to become something you are not. Years ago my mates dragged me to a couple of events that they all ensured me that I would love (a football match and an Oasis gig), I went to both with an open mind and absolutely hated them. They then tried to get me into clubbing, didn't like that either, they all called me a miserable b......, why?, because I didn't like the same stuff they did?!?! Don't ever think that because you may feel different to other people that makes you in anyway inferior because it really doesn't. Just be yourself, there is always the possibility that your low self esteem is due to your negative perception of something being greater than it is in reality? As for whatever may have happened in your life to make you feel this way, just try and block it out and move on from it (think of Rafiki's advice to Simba in The Lion King!).
GAD worthy.
If that's what it's doing for you then great, stick with it but perhaps there is some possibility that a username like this could give people the wrong idea about you? As for your low self esteem, I would try and concentrate on the positive things in your life, is managing to post a thread of this kind to a bunch of strangers (who could have mocked and knocked you down even further) not a forward step? I have never been into things that the masses seemed to love (music, sport, films, TV, events etc. etc.) but you know what, it really doesn't matter, never try to become something you are not. Years ago my mates dragged me to a couple of events that they all ensured me that I would love (a football match and an Oasis gig), I went to both with an open mind and absolutely hated them. They then tried to get me into clubbing, didn't like that either, they all called me a miserable b......, why?, because I didn't like the same stuff they did?!?! Don't ever think that because you may feel different to other people that makes you in anyway inferior because it really doesn't. Just be yourself, there is always the possibility that your low self esteem is due to your negative perception of something being greater than it is in reality? As for whatever may have happened in your life to make you feel this way, just try and block it out and move on from it (think of Rafiki's advice to Simba in The Lion King!).
GAD worthy.
Alfonse wrote:
S..So do we actually have a female poster now? Better put on my tuxedo.
Don't tell me there aren't any other ladies on here! Need some female chats too please.
S..So do we actually have a female poster now? Better put on my tuxedo.
Don't tell me there aren't any other ladies on here! Need some female chats too please.
DL wrote:
Busy_Bex wrote:
[i]Thanks for the advice - slight change in name and still true!
There you go ... confidence boost! Stick with us and we'll keep you smiling :¬)[/i]
Thanks
Busy_Bex wrote:
[i]Thanks for the advice - slight change in name and still true!
There you go ... confidence boost! Stick with us and we'll keep you smiling :¬)[/i]
Thanks
S..So do we actually have a female poster now? Better put on my tuxedo.
Busy_Bex wrote:
Thanks for the advice - slight change in name and still true!
There you go ... confidence boost! Stick with us and we'll keep you smiling :¬)
Thanks for the advice - slight change in name and still true!
There you go ... confidence boost! Stick with us and we'll keep you smiling :¬)
pete_21 wrote:
Busty_Bex wrote:
[i]Alfonse wrote:
[i]Why do all newcomers have such suggestive names? I remember when they used to have wholesome names like Crossbob, Seraphim and Alfonse
Hoping my name will help boost my confidence - that's all.[/i]
If that's what it's doing for you then great, stick with it but perhaps there is some possibility that a username like this could give people the wrong idea about you? As for your low self esteem, I would try and concentrate on the positive things in your life, is managing to post a thread of this kind to a bunch of strangers (who could have mocked and knocked you down even further) not a forward step? I have never been into things that the masses seemed to love (music, sport, films, TV, events etc. etc.) but you know what, it really doesn't matter, never try to become something you are not. Years ago my mates dragged me to a couple of events that they all ensured me that I would love (a football match and an Oasis gig), I went to both with an open mind and absolutely hated them. They then tried to get me into clubbing, didn't like that either, they all called me a miserable b......, why?, because I didn't like the same stuff they did?!?! Don't ever think that because you may feel different to other people that makes you in anyway inferior because it really doesn't. Just be yourself, there is always the possibility that your low self esteem is due to your negative perception of something being greater than it is in reality? As for whatever may have happened in your life to make you feel this way, just try and block it out and move on from it (think of Rafiki's advice to Simba in The Lion King!).
Oh almost forgot, welcome to the forums!
Thanks for the advice - slight change in name and still true!
Rafiki_Bex is actually quite a cool username, could always try that?!! :) [/i]
Busty_Bex wrote:
[i]Alfonse wrote:
[i]Why do all newcomers have such suggestive names? I remember when they used to have wholesome names like Crossbob, Seraphim and Alfonse
Hoping my name will help boost my confidence - that's all.[/i]
If that's what it's doing for you then great, stick with it but perhaps there is some possibility that a username like this could give people the wrong idea about you? As for your low self esteem, I would try and concentrate on the positive things in your life, is managing to post a thread of this kind to a bunch of strangers (who could have mocked and knocked you down even further) not a forward step? I have never been into things that the masses seemed to love (music, sport, films, TV, events etc. etc.) but you know what, it really doesn't matter, never try to become something you are not. Years ago my mates dragged me to a couple of events that they all ensured me that I would love (a football match and an Oasis gig), I went to both with an open mind and absolutely hated them. They then tried to get me into clubbing, didn't like that either, they all called me a miserable b......, why?, because I didn't like the same stuff they did?!?! Don't ever think that because you may feel different to other people that makes you in anyway inferior because it really doesn't. Just be yourself, there is always the possibility that your low self esteem is due to your negative perception of something being greater than it is in reality? As for whatever may have happened in your life to make you feel this way, just try and block it out and move on from it (think of Rafiki's advice to Simba in The Lion King!).
Oh almost forgot, welcome to the forums!
Thanks for the advice - slight change in name and still true!
Rafiki_Bex is actually quite a cool username, could always try that?!! :) [/i]
Busty_Bex wrote:
Alfonse wrote:
[i]Why do all newcomers have such suggestive names? I remember when they used to have wholesome names like Crossbob, Seraphim and Alfonse
Hoping my name will help boost my confidence - that's all.[/i]
If that's what it's doing for you then great, stick with it but perhaps there is some possibility that a username like this could give people the wrong idea about you? As for your low self esteem, I would try and concentrate on the positive things in your life, is managing to post a thread of this kind to a bunch of strangers (who could have mocked and knocked you down even further) not a forward step? I have never been into things that the masses seemed to love (music, sport, films, TV, events etc. etc.) but you know what, it really doesn't matter, never try to become something you are not. Years ago my mates dragged me to a couple of events that they all ensured me that I would love (a football match and an Oasis gig), I went to both with an open mind and absolutely hated them. They then tried to get me into clubbing, didn't like that either, they all called me a miserable b......, why?, because I didn't like the same stuff they did?!?! Don't ever think that because you may feel different to other people that makes you in anyway inferior because it really doesn't. Just be yourself, there is always the possibility that your low self esteem is due to your negative perception of something being greater than it is in reality? As for whatever may have happened in your life to make you feel this way, just try and block it out and move on from it (think of Rafiki's advice to Simba in The Lion King!).
Oh almost forgot, welcome to the forums!
Rafiki_Bex is actually quite a cool username, could always try that?!! :)
Alfonse wrote:
[i]Why do all newcomers have such suggestive names? I remember when they used to have wholesome names like Crossbob, Seraphim and Alfonse
Hoping my name will help boost my confidence - that's all.[/i]
If that's what it's doing for you then great, stick with it but perhaps there is some possibility that a username like this could give people the wrong idea about you? As for your low self esteem, I would try and concentrate on the positive things in your life, is managing to post a thread of this kind to a bunch of strangers (who could have mocked and knocked you down even further) not a forward step? I have never been into things that the masses seemed to love (music, sport, films, TV, events etc. etc.) but you know what, it really doesn't matter, never try to become something you are not. Years ago my mates dragged me to a couple of events that they all ensured me that I would love (a football match and an Oasis gig), I went to both with an open mind and absolutely hated them. They then tried to get me into clubbing, didn't like that either, they all called me a miserable b......, why?, because I didn't like the same stuff they did?!?! Don't ever think that because you may feel different to other people that makes you in anyway inferior because it really doesn't. Just be yourself, there is always the possibility that your low self esteem is due to your negative perception of something being greater than it is in reality? As for whatever may have happened in your life to make you feel this way, just try and block it out and move on from it (think of Rafiki's advice to Simba in The Lion King!).
Oh almost forgot, welcome to the forums!
Rafiki_Bex is actually quite a cool username, could always try that?!! :)
Alfonse wrote:
Why do all newcomers have such suggestive names? I remember when they used to have wholesome names like Crossbob, Seraphim and Alfonse
Hoping my name will help boost my confidence - that's all.
Why do all newcomers have such suggestive names? I remember when they used to have wholesome names like Crossbob, Seraphim and Alfonse
Hoping my name will help boost my confidence - that's all.
Thanks for the advice. Had some rough times but now looking forward to get my life back on track. I've heard of thinking of your happy place but not a stop word. I'll give it try....
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