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I wanted to discuss something that most of us have or will experience in our lives and how different people see it. The main problem with a topic like this is the way it’s written and I have to be careful not to be too graphic for risk of getting this post deleted. Still, I believe that sex should be talked about openly and discussed maturely, even with a young audience.
The thing with sex is that you can treat it in different ways. For years even saying the word outside your own home was taboo. It’s hard to imagine that once upon a time television stations were not allowed to show or talk about sex in any form, nowadays they practically live off of the ratings from showing it at every opportunity. Is this good for society? Well, it depends. If everyone is more open about sex then it can only be a good thing. I’m not talking about a voyeuristic or promiscuous society, but an open and honest one. The problem is that television is not only providing ‘help’ for people who want to know more about sex but it’s also undermining the ideals behind it.
The television audience these days bare witness to some incredible pieces of cinema sex. Sex scenes in nearly every film are played out to the max and often contain some inexplicable occurrences. Men and women are constantly wrapped around each other in a matter of seconds with no awkward fumbling or underwear pulling and tripping over. Their antics always please the other partner immensely and they always end up in total harmony with each other, amazing. Now real life can occasionally give you a nice surprise, but nature wasn’t designed to make things easy and more often than not one person is going to find that before, after or during their experience there is going to be a problem. That’s where the ‘other’ sort of programme comes in. Problem shows and incompatibility based programmes from fact to fiction are getting more and more popular. Women and men are different, and some people of the same sex are different to each other in many ways, so it’s going to be obvious that one person’s notes aren’t going to be a lot of help to someone else, no matter how much advice you can give in the pub to your mates. Programmes like this have to be broad and as such they’re not always much help to anyone learning about an important subject, but a lot of people won’t find help or advice in the right places because they still consider sex as an embarrassing and personal problem.
Now it seems an in-built feature to the teenage psyche that when talking about sex they will get sniggery about the whole subject. That’s fine as long as they are aware of the implications of such a responsible act. Yes, the whole thing from singular to plural can be a pleasure, but there are many factors to consider and there are plenty of young and older people around who are either just not aware of these or ignore them in favour of the pleasure side of things. The thing we all need to do is be aware of the serious side of things and also about the feelings of the partner you are sharing the experience with. There are books out there that could change your life and your feelings about sex and improve any technique to an amazing extent, but there are also plenty of charlatans who have as much useful advice as your friends down the local or in school. Most importantly, when you know more about a subject you find that your enjoyment is heightened.
Now, anyone else want to chip in before this subject gets deleted?
So if you don't think about it for say an hour does that mean by the law of averages that you will think about it 600 times sucessively with no break in between?
I wanted to discuss something that most of us have or will experience in our lives and how different people see it. The main problem with a topic like this is the way it’s written and I have to be careful not to be too graphic for risk of getting this post deleted. Still, I believe that sex should be talked about openly and discussed maturely, even with a young audience.
The thing with sex is that you can treat it in different ways. For years even saying the word outside your own home was taboo. It’s hard to imagine that once upon a time television stations were not allowed to show or talk about sex in any form, nowadays they practically live off of the ratings from showing it at every opportunity. Is this good for society? Well, it depends. If everyone is more open about sex then it can only be a good thing. I’m not talking about a voyeuristic or promiscuous society, but an open and honest one. The problem is that television is not only providing ‘help’ for people who want to know more about sex but it’s also undermining the ideals behind it.
The television audience these days bare witness to some incredible pieces of cinema sex. Sex scenes in nearly every film are played out to the max and often contain some inexplicable occurrences. Men and women are constantly wrapped around each other in a matter of seconds with no awkward fumbling or underwear pulling and tripping over. Their antics always please the other partner immensely and they always end up in total harmony with each other, amazing. Now real life can occasionally give you a nice surprise, but nature wasn’t designed to make things easy and more often than not one person is going to find that before, after or during their experience there is going to be a problem. That’s where the ‘other’ sort of programme comes in. Problem shows and incompatibility based programmes from fact to fiction are getting more and more popular. Women and men are different, and some people of the same sex are different to each other in many ways, so it’s going to be obvious that one person’s notes aren’t going to be a lot of help to someone else, no matter how much advice you can give in the pub to your mates. Programmes like this have to be broad and as such they’re not always much help to anyone learning about an important subject, but a lot of people won’t find help or advice in the right places because they still consider sex as an embarrassing and personal problem.
Now it seems an in-built feature to the teenage psyche that when talking about sex they will get sniggery about the whole subject. That’s fine as long as they are aware of the implications of such a responsible act. Yes, the whole thing from singular to plural can be a pleasure, but there are many factors to consider and there are plenty of young and older people around who are either just not aware of these or ignore them in favour of the pleasure side of things. The thing we all need to do is be aware of the serious side of things and also about the feelings of the partner you are sharing the experience with. There are books out there that could change your life and your feelings about sex and improve any technique to an amazing extent, but there are also plenty of charlatans who have as much useful advice as your friends down the local or in school. Most importantly, when you know more about a subject you find that your enjoyment is heightened.
Now, anyone else want to chip in before this subject gets deleted?