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"ADHD anyone else got it???"

I have ADHD which basically means I go into rages and can't control it and have to take tablets to calm me down. I would like to chat about it if anyone else has it or knows about it.
Khazar

The internet makes all the difference doesn't it. You can say something stupid and everyone will see it. The only difference is they will probably forget about it, unlike at school where people will go on about it for weeks.

I didn't have a lot of confidence either... this forum does you good though, as we don't judge anyone harshly here, and everyone's opinion matters... even though it doesn't seem that way sometimes. :0)

Without going deep into self love, it is possible to be confident with yourself, just by never thinking about it.

MJ§w£®v£ wrote:
> I'm extremely unconfident. I mean I am also afraid of embarrasing
> myself. I gues thats why I like talking on the internet, because it
> is impossible for me to embarrass myself.

**MJs trousers fall
> down**

"Never mind no one can see me"

See what I
> mean.

I agree, I'm a lot more confident on the Internet.

Game: You and me are almost identical. I have the exact same problems apart from the water one.

I'm extremely unconfident. I mean I am also afraid of embarrasing myself. I gues thats why I like talking on the internet, because it is impossible for me to embarrass myself.

**MJs trousers fall down**

"Never mind no one can see me"

See what I mean.

Yeah that's because i can squash you ant.

Ant wrote:
I'm very unconfident, especially around girls! So I
> sort of know how you feel, Game.

I guess that's why I feel uncomfortable around Sniper.

{:) "ONCE YOU POP, YOU CAN'T STOP!!" CLASSIQUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

SaMe here Game, i just feel that my GCSE's could go well though.

The Game wrote:
> Claustrophobia is another one, but not really to the same degree. I
> get scared at the thought of being confined and not free... Sleeping
> bags are a no-go! As are cuboards under the stairs and pile-ons.

Game-I suffer the same thing!

I have to say, being unconfident is a real downside.

I look at some of my friends, who are chatting to girls easily all the time, and I think, "How do they do it!?"

I'm scared of embarrasing myself, so I don't say anything.

The Game wrote:
> The two things I suffer most from are these two mild
> phobias:

Kakorrhaphiophobia - Fear of failure or
> defeat.
Katagelophobia - Fear of ridicule.

I'm not a very
> confident man, I aim to please and make people laugh and help where
> I can, but as soon as i'm in the spotlight or i'm being laughed at
> spitefully, I go cold all over!

I always feel i'm going to
> fail... my GSCE's were okay... Standard i'd say, but anything I do,
> regardless of how much effort I put into it, I always think it's
> going to fail.

I also have mild Venstraphobia, a fear of women...
> I'm not gay and I have quite a few female friends, but meeting new
> ones is very scary for me... I guess it's all down to a lack of
> confidence.

Hydrophobia is another one, although only in very
> deep water and at the thought of sharks! (Selachophobia)

It all
> bores down to a very sad lack of confidence, as I said. I'm okay
> round friends but with anyone new whether it be a girl-friend or a
> female friend of a friend, I just go all quiet! Don't know why.

I have the same sort of problem.

I'm very unconfident, especially around girls! So I sort of know how you feel, Game.