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"do you...."

....completely 100% trust your partener?

I am having doubts about my girlfriend, i Love her so much, i really do, but she .... i dont know if she does me, she says she does, but then, can you always trust a persons word? she is somewhere in a caravan today with a dude who used to like her, and she just text me saying "this caravan might fall over soon......windy" so you may also be able to see where my thoughts are comming from.

I...i ...i dont think i will confront her for fear of ruining the relationship totally, that would not be a good thing, might just leave it, i know she cant lie about these things to save her life, she will not be able to keep it hidden at all so i think i will just wait it out, a week of happiness is better than ruining it over silly ideas, no?

How old are you, seriously?

I'll bet he stuck a red one in diagonally without her even realising.

And other rubbishly forced innuendo, coming soon!

i have other methods than their words on that, how silly do you think i am, i....sent someone to spy, i feel stupid, but they were only in the caravan for 10 mins, 2 games of connect four, (i found where the caravan was), and thats about it. ah well

Yeah...

AHAHAHHAHAA

'Yes darling, just played Connect 4'

(Don't fret, that's nothing sexual. That I know of...)

turns out, they were only in the caravan to play connect 4 ( dont know why ) and that he has a gf, and all is fine....i think. my mind is messing about with me for other reason(s) though ah well, thanks for your *cough* help

He's probably boning her right now as we speak.
And she likes it because it's a change from the comfortable, familiar that she knows with you. Maybe she's making a different noise, or is demanding he does something she couldn't possibly ask you to do because she knows Caravan Man is just a fling.

OR

She's naive and doesn't realise that a bloke will automatically think something's up.

It might well be that she sees him as a friend, and he's fancies her but drifts along as friends, without doing anything about it.

If she genuinely sees him as a 'just a friend' nothing's going to happen.

But you'd still like him to back off.

Go buy mens health, I think there might be something about it in this issue. Or it might just have been a recent one.


It depends why they're in the caravan too. If they have a solid innocent reason, and he's 'just a friend' you're fine.
Otherwise be suspicious.


But confronting her about it now, if she's not shakin' the caravan with him and you have no real reason to believe she is, will only create problems between the two of you.

I too am alone in the world - apart from when I take my driving lessons, the world soon starts to fill with people.
Don't worry about what happens - it'll all turn out for the best.

I'm all alone in the world, I cry.

Oh and I wouldn't trust to stay ina caravan with some dude but then again I wouldn't expect her to put me in that position.