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Mon 04/04/05 at 23:49
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A couple of close friends of ours have been trying for a baby for many years now without much luck.

9 months ago she got the best present anyone could have ever given her, she was told that she was pregrant. You could see the stars in her eyes and the happiness shone through her like rays of sunshine - her life was made, it was like a dream, finally, she would have the family she always wanted.

She's had a wonderful pregnancy, if there ever was one - no throwing up, no pain, no dodgy cravings of any sort and all regular check ups have shown both mum and baby to be healthy.

Baby is due on April 13th and what have I learned today? 1 week before the baby is due our friend is taken into hospital yesterday evening because the baby had stopped kicking and moving around in her stomach, later found that the baby had infact died.

She had to still give birth to the baby, knowing that when the baby comes out into this world it will be dead. Our friend was lucky to survive the ordeal leaving both parents devastated and wishing there was a god.

What had started as a dream soon became a nightmare.

Why is life so cruel?
Thu 14/04/05 at 20:19
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Coin wrote:
> I'm aethist / budhist. So God has no relevance. Ohm.

That's irrelevant to my point about Adam and Eve.

Someone (cant remember who) asked for a Christian to justify God's actions......
Thu 14/04/05 at 19:40
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Man this is such a grim situation. The only good (if there is any) to come of it, is that this will really build their character and make them stronger, which they can adapt to their lives for other things. But its still a very sad situation, I hate hearing about things like this :-( Best wishes to them.
Thu 14/04/05 at 16:26
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God works in mysterious ways.
Thu 14/04/05 at 16:11
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Must have been devastating for her. I have a beautiful nephew born on Saturday morning, one of twins, sadly his twin died a week before she went into labour. Jonaton is beautiful though, and we're very very thankful to have him.
Thu 14/04/05 at 09:37
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True, hardly a conversation starter in real life. But still...

Flock wrote:

> There is too much i struggle to follow to call myself a Buddhist, i'm
> Buddhist-lite.

Guh. I'll put in layman-lite terms then. Buddhism doesn't discriminate what you do or don't believe in. Hate Gods, but follow the teachings of Buddha? Wow, you're a Buddhist then.
Thu 14/04/05 at 09:20
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What's the sound of one hand clapping?
Thu 14/04/05 at 09:09
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lcarus wrote:
> Atheism is the disbelief that any god(s) exist. Buddhism is simply a
> collection of teachings, principles and ethics. You can be a Hindu as
> well as a Buddhist, just like you can be an Atheist and a Buddhist at
> the same simultaneously.

Atheism is a disbelief and a refusal to even consider it, that sort of closed mind goes against Buddhism i believe. Where's Kawada when you need him?

> Yep, the only stuff you explain well are quotes. And for someone
> who's been preaching themselves as a follower of Buddhism, all of a
> sudden you wouldn't call yourself a Buddhist? You should teach
> chickening out classes, except you can't explain stuff so that's
> another door closed for ya ;)

There is too much i struggle to follow to call myself a Buddhist, i'm Buddhist-lite.
Thu 14/04/05 at 08:58
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Flock wrote:

> Atheism is a refusal to believe in even the possibility, Agnostic is
> not believing but being open to it which is more accurate. Buddhism
> doesn't ask the question at all as far as i'm aware, the is no set
> guide. I may have explained that badly.
> I dont call myself a Buddhist, it would be an insult to Buddhism.

Atheism is the disbelief that any god(s) exist. Buddhism is simply a collection of teachings, principles and ethics. You can be a Hindu as well as a Buddhist, just like you can be an Atheist and a Buddhist at the same simultaneously.

Yep, the only stuff you explain well are quotes. And for someone who's been preaching themselves as a follower of Buddhism, all of a sudden you wouldn't call yourself a Buddhist? You should teach chickening out classes, except you can't explain stuff so that's another door closed for ya ;)
Thu 14/04/05 at 08:24
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lcarus wrote:
> Atheism - belief there is no god. Buddhism, unlike other religions,
> do not believe there is a god. Call yourself a practicing Buddhist.

Atheism is a refusal to believe in even the possibility, Agnostic is not believing but being open to it which is more accurate. Buddhism doesn't ask the question at all as far as i'm aware, the is no set guide. I may have explained that badly.
I dont call myself a Buddhist, it would be an insult to Buddhism.
Thu 14/04/05 at 08:19
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Flock wrote:
> Coin wrote:
> I'm aethist / budhist. So God has no relevance. Ohm.
>
> Can someone tell me if thats even possible, atheism being a refusal
> to believe in the possibility contradicts something in Buddhism i'm
> sure.

Atheism - belief there is no god. Buddhism, unlike other religions, do not believe there is a god. Call yourself a practicing Buddhist.

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