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Thu 31/03/05 at 19:43
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"Puerile Shagging"
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The title refers to your other half/better half/lover/husband/wife/biatch, delete as applicable.

I was thinking about this while in the bath this morning. Does it matter where you meet? Does it have any effect on you or others around you? Do you judge others on how and where they met?

What are your thoughts on people that have met say, in a pub? Or in a club? What about a blind date? Personal ads or the one I'm really getting at, through the Internet? I obviously have had a little personal experience regarding the last of these and have found it to be very strange in some ways. It's strange, because it hasn't been strange, if that makes any sense whatsoever.

It hasn't seemed strange to me regarding my lass, but yet I've still not been comfortable to tell everyone where we met. Why could this be?
I've told some people and it hasn't been a big thing to them and yet I think it would be to others. My parents for instance.

It just strikes me as odd.
We met online, (this very forum), talked for a year and a half on MSN and the phone and then met up. We just got on really well, as cheesy as it sounds, we just "clicked". We've been a couple for over 4 months and now and now she's just my lass. No longer is she a name on a forum, my contacts list and mobile. She's ma' woman, innit.

The way I see it is that is doesn't matter really how we or anyone else meets, it's how you get on and relate to each other and those around you that matters.
I've taken some stick for meeting her online, (even worse then that it has made me talk like a third division football manager now and then).

It has been called "sad" that we met online and are now dating. Why is it sad? I didn't come on this website looking for totty. I mean, the fact that the sexy beast that is Light comes on here keeps me coming back, but that isn't why I joined. If I'd joined a gym or something because I wanted to go to it and then I met someone there, would that not be the same thing? Is it simply because when we first met, we didn't really meet because we were an hour away from each other that causes people to look down their nose?

What if I'd signed up to a dating website, would that then actually be sad because I was looking for people online and the perception may be that I can't "get" a girl in "real" life?

I'm just wondering what all your thoughts are on this and if any of you have had any personal experience of any of it.

Now go, my pretties, and go on Light, you gorgeous creature.
Fri 01/04/05 at 18:30
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"Puerile Shagging"
Posts: 15,009
kevstar wrote:
> Why don't you 2 just get together some time, you know you want to.

Why bother?
Were you upset that there was a thread not encluding you in any way shape or form?
Fri 01/04/05 at 18:02
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"bot"
Posts: 3,491
Chippxero wrote:
> Why would anyone care what people think, its not like your running
> around with a 'L33T' written across it or 'my computer loves me'.

Well, maybe you don't...
Fri 01/04/05 at 12:58
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"..."
Posts: 9,808
I met Lucy through an Internet Chatroom, one that is no longer open. Again we just clicked, now we're married.

I don;t personally find it strange, although I am conscious that others do, so I often tell people we met through a housemate of mine from my uni days (as he's from the same place as Lucy it makes sense.)
Fri 01/04/05 at 11:17
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"Selected"
Posts: 4,199
SHUT UP, NERDS!
Fri 01/04/05 at 10:56
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"Lisan al-Gaib"
Posts: 7,093
Light wrote:
> kevstar wrote:
> You are a Geek,
>
>
> ...says the man who spends all day in front of the internet, and
> playing on the Xbox...
>
> Don't worry Kevin; denial can be overcome with therapy.

[URL]http://www.arko1.btinternet.co.uk/pwned.jpg[/URL]

Bwhahahahaha
Fri 01/04/05 at 10:55
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"Wanking Mong"
Posts: 4,884
kevstar wrote:
> You are a Geek,


...says the man who spends all day in front of the internet, and playing on the Xbox...

Don't worry Kevin; denial can be overcome with therapy. I think my friends probably would bore you to the grave. Which means you really should meet my friends.
Fri 01/04/05 at 10:55
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"Lisan al-Gaib"
Posts: 7,093
kevstar wrote:
> Grow up eahh? I am grown up you fool. You admited that you are looked
> upon as a geek, then try and say "footballers are the
> geeks". You are a Geek, and a idiot, no wonder you and Light are
> like two peas in a pod.

No, I am a geek. I have no shame in admitting that. It's not a problem to me. All I was saying is that football fans know statistics, facts, who played where and when and have such an enyclopedic knowledge of the game that it would put a bearded Lunix hardware coder to shame.

It's geekery, but it's socially accepted geekery.

Numptie.
Fri 01/04/05 at 10:39
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"Don't let me down"
Posts: 626
Grow up eahh? I am grown up you fool. You admited that you are looked upon as a geek, then try and say "footballers are the geeks". You are a Geek, and a idiot, no wonder you and Light are like two peas in a pod.
Fri 01/04/05 at 10:22
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"Lisan al-Gaib"
Posts: 7,093
kevstar wrote:
> Hey, I have more friends than you'll ever have, thats why i'm not on
> here 24/7 like you pandimoanalot, eahh? And as for Light, I just
> reackon his friends(if going off Lights humor)would bore me to the
> grave, and i'm probably right too.

Bwhahahaha. "I have more friends than you'll ever have, I have more friends than you'll ever have"

Grow up.

Erm, I also choose mine to be non racist, non homophobic, tollerant and all in all, good people.

Not dunderheeds.
Fri 01/04/05 at 10:13
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"Don't let me down"
Posts: 626
Hey, I have more friends than you'll ever have, thats why i'm not on here 24/7 like you pandimoanalot, eahh? And as for Light, I just reackon his friends(if going off Lights humor)would bore me to the grave, and i'm probably right too.

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