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"Self harmers/harming"

Ok, i know some1, who i am talkin 2 on MSN who is intent on Self harming, is there anything i can say to stop them like RIGHT now? or is there something that i should not do?


Why do people self harm?

Displayed wrote:
> Ok, i know some1, who i am talkin 2 on MSN who is intent on Self
> harming, is there anything i can say to stop them like RIGHT now? or
> is there something that i should not do?

tell them you'll get your wang out if they do it.
That should put her off it.

RoJ wrote:
> Oh.
> The "friend" trap.

:D
im in with her friend though.

I hear the trick is to reel them in from behind.

Oh.
The "friend" trap.

RoJ
we are just friends

This.Celluloid.Dream wrote:
> It's true they want attention, but just figure out WHY he or she wants
> the attention. I used to do it..until i came across a wonderful thing
> they call alcohol

i asked her why she was going to self harm, but all she said was "depression" i dont really want to push the topic.

Shag her?

RoJ wrote:
> Give them self harming tips. That'll confuse them. Then ask for
> photos or videos of their wounds, and that'll put them off because
> they'll think you're some sort of weirdo.

im not sure this will help her. i am trying to talk he out of it but it is not helping.

Displayed wrote:
> Ok, i know some1, who i am talkin 2 on MSN who is intent on Self
> harming, is there anything i can say to stop them like RIGHT now? or
> is there something that i should not do?

Not a thing if they've done it before, if not just common sense stuff

> Why do people self harm?

I dont want to get into this again, i've had the temptation before and i still dont understand why so i'll say i dont know.

It's true they want attention, but just figure out WHY he or she wants the attention. I used to do it..until i came across a wonderful thing they call alcohol