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"Shhhhhhtop! This relationship isn't ready yet"

Howdy guys and girls, how y'all doing? Anyway enough with the Dolly Parton impression, however tempting it is. I haven't been on here in ages but hey hey! I'm back for now anyway and got some relationship questions for you all. I think the answers will be interesting and would help me out a fair bit. Thanks :D

1) How long would you wait to sleep with your girl/boyfriend?
2) How long would you wait to do the deed with your girl/boyfriend?
3) How long would you wait to spend an extended amount of time with them e.g. a weeks holiday?
4) How long would you wait until you move in with them?
5) How old were you when you did all of the above for the first time?

Thanks in advance people:D

yeah sorry the big man syndrome bit was a bit harsh, as you actually wanted some practical advice, but the rest is true.

In general i'd say don't do move in with her over such a short period, but i don't know your circumstances and it is possible it might work. Hope for you good it does but be careful of pening yourself in and risking it all too young. And believe me you are taking a bigger risk than you think.

Don't let it rule you, its hard to go back, but if you get it wrong you have to accept it early, as the longer you leave it the worse it will get.

The other BIG BIG BIG issue is don't get her pregnant, Ok i sound like your mum, but its easiere than you think especially when your young and living together, as that WILL ruin your life FOREVER at 16. but i'm sure you'll be careful

hehe lol

Emm thanks for that Ashley, well I really am in love and I am not the one doing anything really. My partner was going to go to uni in Glasgow, not anymore, is moving away from family and friends, is getting a full time job in Edinburgh (applied for 10 already) is flat hunting too. After giving up all that for me it'd be a pretty big slap in the face to say I didn't want to move in. It's just lucky I'm in love anyway heh. I've been asked to move in, I think I will:D

ah cubist big man syndrome is back.

All paraphrased:

I don't care what you say, you can call X what you want, but i love her and i am not being naive. we'll be together ages.......blah blah blah

although i don't know you, you do just seem to be the most confused teenager i've ever seen, you think and pretend you know what you want, but you haven't got a clue how your life should be going. You are far to young and going far to fun, I am 99.46754% certain that this will either A) never happen (moving in) or B) end in disaster in a very short period of time. good luck if you can get away with it but i doubt it.

1,and 2 are all dependent on the person and shouldn't really be rushed into for the sake of your wacky hormones, other wise you'll probably have a crap relationship which you've just rushed into cos your horny and she's available. If youve bagged your self a good girl wll done and it is possible in this time frame, but make sure you are doing it for the right reasons if you want to move in with her.

again 3) Just a couple of weeks, but pretty much all the girls i've gone out with, ive known for a while before so its not a major issue. If i didn't know them well a few months if we are talking going abroad.

4) Personally i wouldn' in my circumstances, if you want some independence you'll get it at uni, by moving in with some one your just consigning yourself to similar restrictions and blocking out other important parts of you life development.

5)some answered above but otherwise personal.

And that hobo in the corner of the cell?

And Ann Widdecombe?

And the goat?

And the radiator.

English_Bloke wrote:
> I’m innocent!
> I’ve not had sex…well, unless you count that fence.
*****

And the Mars Bar?

I’m innocent!
I’ve not had sex…well, unless you count that fence.