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Okay, I need advice.
It's been ages since I've pulled in a club, especially in circumstances where you can't really talk (on the dancefloor), and I've totally lost the feel for it.
However, I've improved myself a bit recently, leading to more opportunities. I've had opportunities before, but not really been sure how to make a move (in opportunities where I 'would').
Last night was a blatant example of this - total opportunity with a really hot woman, and decent opportunities with a couple of other hot women.
I'd rather a long term relationship, but I don't have a problem with casual sex, and you wouldn't either if you saw that girl :^P
So, pulling on a dancefloor, where you can't really talk. Help Mumbai get laid :^D
It's been ages since I've pulled in a club, especially in circumstances where you can't really talk (on the dancefloor), and I've totally lost the feel for it.
However, I've improved myself a bit recently, leading to more opportunities. I've had opportunities before, but not really been sure how to make a move (in opportunities where I 'would').
Last night was a blatant example of this - total opportunity with a really hot woman, and decent opportunities with a couple of other hot women.
I'd rather a long term relationship, but I don't have a problem with casual sex, and you wouldn't either if you saw that girl :^P
So, pulling on a dancefloor, where you can't really talk. Help Mumbai get laid :^D
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I've found standing at the bar/sitting down and refusing to dance or interract works best. Ignoring the desperate gyrations of the drunk and stupid and simply chain-smoking inbetween shots of vodka.
You can watch the lynx-reeking wannabe alpha-males dancing at somebody, can appreciate the angry-hen clusters of shiny-cheeked smirnoff-ice downing hosers without having to actually take part.
Strangely, indifference & barely concealed loathing seems to be spanish fly. I remember the one time I went to "Jumpin' Jax" in Harlow as a favour to a new guy at work who didn't know anybody in the area. He got trollied and tried his luck, I stood in a corner and kept looking at the time on my phone.
"You awite maaaayyyyyte?" shrieks some vacous manhole
"I'm fine"
"Aintya dancing?"
"No"
"Why not?"
"I dont want to. Please go and bother somebody else"
"Woss your problem?"
"You're 14 and I'm pi**ed off. Go away"
Chatup lines? Are you 16?
You can watch the lynx-reeking wannabe alpha-males dancing at somebody, can appreciate the angry-hen clusters of shiny-cheeked smirnoff-ice downing hosers without having to actually take part.
Strangely, indifference & barely concealed loathing seems to be spanish fly. I remember the one time I went to "Jumpin' Jax" in Harlow as a favour to a new guy at work who didn't know anybody in the area. He got trollied and tried his luck, I stood in a corner and kept looking at the time on my phone.
"You awite maaaayyyyyte?" shrieks some vacous manhole
"I'm fine"
"Aintya dancing?"
"No"
"Why not?"
"I dont want to. Please go and bother somebody else"
"Woss your problem?"
"You're 14 and I'm pi**ed off. Go away"
Chatup lines? Are you 16?
Seems like you're kinda fearing rejection.
If you're gonna pull a lot of girls then you probly will get the odd rejection on the way. But don't sweat it, just dont try too hard and go for it with someone. Rejection isn't so bad cos you'll probably never see her again anyway.
Be casual, not too full on (or clingy as you said) and make it seem like you've done it loads of times before and not that you're actually shaking at the knees :-)
If you're gonna pull a lot of girls then you probly will get the odd rejection on the way. But don't sweat it, just dont try too hard and go for it with someone. Rejection isn't so bad cos you'll probably never see her again anyway.
Be casual, not too full on (or clingy as you said) and make it seem like you've done it loads of times before and not that you're actually shaking at the knees :-)
Very_Metal wrote:
> rhyponol.
I tried that, it was crap, I popped one and just crashed out at my place :^(
> rhyponol.
I tried that, it was crap, I popped one and just crashed out at my place :^(
Paradox: wrote:
> Why do you feel the need to pull in a club?
>
> You just wanting some sex, or you specifically need to find a club
> hussy?
I go to the clubs anyway, and I've seen one too many opportunities to have sex with a hot woman slip away.
Last time, instead of pulling one of a few hot girls and getting laid, I went home, played donkey konga, ate noodles and went to bed.
It's just such a waste. If I'm there anyway, and she's up for it, why not?
I figure it's worth the mither to sort my lamenesses out and pull.
Plus I've not been getting much outside clubs lately, so you've got to take what you can get!
> Why do you feel the need to pull in a club?
>
> You just wanting some sex, or you specifically need to find a club
> hussy?
I go to the clubs anyway, and I've seen one too many opportunities to have sex with a hot woman slip away.
Last time, instead of pulling one of a few hot girls and getting laid, I went home, played donkey konga, ate noodles and went to bed.
It's just such a waste. If I'm there anyway, and she's up for it, why not?
I figure it's worth the mither to sort my lamenesses out and pull.
Plus I've not been getting much outside clubs lately, so you've got to take what you can get!
Step 1: Porn channels.
rhyponol.
Why do you feel the need to pull in a club?
You just wanting some sex, or you specifically need to find a club hussy?
You just wanting some sex, or you specifically need to find a club hussy?
MoJoJoJo wrote:
> I just can't pull in a night club. With a face like mine my whole act
> needs to revolve around personality and humour. A tad hard when they
> can't even hear your name, let alone what happened when an
> Englishman, a Scotsman and an Irishman were on an island...
>
> Then again, my pulling power's crap anyway. A friend asked me for
> advice once, and I told him whatever he does, make sure it's the
> opposite of what I do because it never works. He was doing really
> well for himself anyway (seen him with some stunners a few times) so
> I don't know what possessed him to ask me of all people.
I know it's an odd thread for me to offer advice, but I'm in a strange kind of limbo between having worked some things out, and not having a clue about other things.
I now seem to be able to pique interest, but not move on from there.
The two most important things seem to be:
being mentally 'centred' and in control of your thoughts and emotions (it's reflected in your face and body language very clearly) and
not being clingy when you interact with people. That extends to your general attitude too - so that instead of looking for someone in a clingy way, you relax and don't sweat it.
There's more too, of course, but those seem to be the most important things.
Since working that stuff out, I've had a massive increase in female interest, including some really hot ones who even now I can't quite comprehend being with (the Buffy lookalike that got away *cries*).
Of course, the sense of status and worth is a completely baseless shame, but it feels so ingrained that it's taking some effort to break away from.
But I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone that hot, I can't imagine being 'up to it'. It may be an element of social skills - keeping someone like that interested and entertained - but I think self esteem is a bit of a factor too.
Anyway, yeah, being mentally together and centred, and not being clingy.
Big, very important thing.
Unless it's just my new haircut :^P
> I just can't pull in a night club. With a face like mine my whole act
> needs to revolve around personality and humour. A tad hard when they
> can't even hear your name, let alone what happened when an
> Englishman, a Scotsman and an Irishman were on an island...
>
> Then again, my pulling power's crap anyway. A friend asked me for
> advice once, and I told him whatever he does, make sure it's the
> opposite of what I do because it never works. He was doing really
> well for himself anyway (seen him with some stunners a few times) so
> I don't know what possessed him to ask me of all people.
I know it's an odd thread for me to offer advice, but I'm in a strange kind of limbo between having worked some things out, and not having a clue about other things.
I now seem to be able to pique interest, but not move on from there.
The two most important things seem to be:
being mentally 'centred' and in control of your thoughts and emotions (it's reflected in your face and body language very clearly) and
not being clingy when you interact with people. That extends to your general attitude too - so that instead of looking for someone in a clingy way, you relax and don't sweat it.
There's more too, of course, but those seem to be the most important things.
Since working that stuff out, I've had a massive increase in female interest, including some really hot ones who even now I can't quite comprehend being with (the Buffy lookalike that got away *cries*).
Of course, the sense of status and worth is a completely baseless shame, but it feels so ingrained that it's taking some effort to break away from.
But I can't imagine being in a relationship with someone that hot, I can't imagine being 'up to it'. It may be an element of social skills - keeping someone like that interested and entertained - but I think self esteem is a bit of a factor too.
Anyway, yeah, being mentally together and centred, and not being clingy.
Big, very important thing.
Unless it's just my new haircut :^P
Dignity is overrated. Sex with hot girls has to take priority occassionally.
Paradox: wrote:
> Stop being such a wimp Duck, I'm starting to think you'd be better
> spending a nice in the YMCA showers. They're just boobs with people
> attached, you don't have the painful effort of making dull
> conversation with people who almost certainly have different
> interests and no personalities, you just get to gyrate with them. Do
> it, now.
It just feels completely retarded - go dance in front of someone and see if they dance back. What was I just saying about dignity? :^D
Then again, if the best approach would have been trying something, anything, rather than letting the opportunities slide by, I guess I am a big wimp.
Ah well, I'll keep the YMCA showers in mind, and hopefully they'll prompt me to pull my thumb out..
Paradox: wrote:
> Stop being such a wimp Duck, I'm starting to think you'd be better
> spending a nice in the YMCA showers. They're just boobs with people
> attached, you don't have the painful effort of making dull
> conversation with people who almost certainly have different
> interests and no personalities, you just get to gyrate with them. Do
> it, now.
It just feels completely retarded - go dance in front of someone and see if they dance back. What was I just saying about dignity? :^D
Then again, if the best approach would have been trying something, anything, rather than letting the opportunities slide by, I guess I am a big wimp.
Ah well, I'll keep the YMCA showers in mind, and hopefully they'll prompt me to pull my thumb out..
I just can't pull in a night club. With a face like mine my whole act needs to revolve around personality and humour. A tad hard when they can't even hear your name, let alone what happened when an Englishman, a Scotsman and an Irishman were on an island...
Then again, my pulling power's crap anyway. A friend asked me for advice once, and I told him whatever he does, make sure it's the opposite of what I do because it never works. He was doing really well for himself anyway (seen him with some stunners a few times) so I don't know what possessed him to ask me of all people.
Then again, my pulling power's crap anyway. A friend asked me for advice once, and I told him whatever he does, make sure it's the opposite of what I do because it never works. He was doing really well for himself anyway (seen him with some stunners a few times) so I don't know what possessed him to ask me of all people.
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