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"Pulling In Clubs"

Okay, I need advice.

It's been ages since I've pulled in a club, especially in circumstances where you can't really talk (on the dancefloor), and I've totally lost the feel for it.

However, I've improved myself a bit recently, leading to more opportunities. I've had opportunities before, but not really been sure how to make a move (in opportunities where I 'would').
Last night was a blatant example of this - total opportunity with a really hot woman, and decent opportunities with a couple of other hot women.

I'd rather a long term relationship, but I don't have a problem with casual sex, and you wouldn't either if you saw that girl :^P


So, pulling on a dancefloor, where you can't really talk. Help Mumbai get laid :^D

Okay, I need advice.

It's been ages since I've pulled in a club, especially in circumstances where you can't really talk (on the dancefloor), and I've totally lost the feel for it.

However, I've improved myself a bit recently, leading to more opportunities. I've had opportunities before, but not really been sure how to make a move (in opportunities where I 'would').
Last night was a blatant example of this - total opportunity with a really hot woman, and decent opportunities with a couple of other hot women.

I'd rather a long term relationship, but I don't have a problem with casual sex, and you wouldn't either if you saw that girl :^P


So, pulling on a dancefloor, where you can't really talk. Help Mumbai get laid :^D

If you feel unable to pull on a dancefloor then don't, go somewhere you're comfortable. Join a tennis club, I hear they're good places to get a girl.

If the girls having a good time (aka trotted) and you think she's liking you, just dance with her...suggestively, and then kiss her, if she kisses back (almost certainly will in these situations, she doesnt have a reason to reject you unless you're a mutant) then pull her to one side and talk about where the night could take you, or exchange phone numbers etc.

I'm sorry what was the question again?...

I like them not much more drunk than me at worst, otherwise it feels like I'm taking advantage.

I wouldn't say I'm uncomfortable meeting them there, if there's a quiet enough area to have a bit of a chat, then dance, I'm normally okay. Its just knowing how to make a move without actually being able to talk to her. Any uncomfortableness I should be able to deal with and/or overcome.

Ask her if she wants a drink, then get her to pay.

That should do the trick.

Mumbai Duck wrote:
> Its just knowing how to make a move without actually being able
> to talk to her.

It's all about eye contact.

There's no real method, it's all about the moment really. I'm not gonna pretend like I'm some dance floor casanova, hell most the girls I've hooked up with in clubs have had to make the first move.

Offering a drink or asking her some insincere question is usually a good way to break the ice. Failing that, dry humping her leg and girating your crotch in her face should do the trick.

Lick her head like Wacko.
No idea. I've never been on a dancefloor.

Mumbai Duck wrote:
> So, pulling on a dancefloor, where you can't really talk. Help Mumbai
> get laid :^D

Either: -

1) Dress like a tart.
2) Don't go to nightclubs.

Tiltawhirl wrote:
> hell most the girls
> I've hooked up with in clubs have had to make the first move.

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Yup, that's the way forward. I'm a fan of the minimal effort approach.

Being drunk helps

Tiltawhirl wrote:
> Offering a drink or asking her some insincere question is usually a
> good way to break the ice.

Because it's so easy to pose questions without talking...