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It's been ages since I've pulled in a club, especially in circumstances where you can't really talk (on the dancefloor), and I've totally lost the feel for it.
However, I've improved myself a bit recently, leading to more opportunities. I've had opportunities before, but not really been sure how to make a move (in opportunities where I 'would').
Last night was a blatant example of this - total opportunity with a really hot woman, and decent opportunities with a couple of other hot women.
I'd rather a long term relationship, but I don't have a problem with casual sex, and you wouldn't either if you saw that girl :^P
So, pulling on a dancefloor, where you can't really talk. Help Mumbai get laid :^D
> Why do you feel the need to pull in a club?
>
> You just wanting some sex, or you specifically need to find a club
> hussy?
I go to the clubs anyway, and I've seen one too many opportunities to have sex with a hot woman slip away.
Last time, instead of pulling one of a few hot girls and getting laid, I went home, played donkey konga, ate noodles and went to bed.
It's just such a waste. If I'm there anyway, and she's up for it, why not?
I figure it's worth the mither to sort my lamenesses out and pull.
Plus I've not been getting much outside clubs lately, so you've got to take what you can get!
> rhyponol.
I tried that, it was crap, I popped one and just crashed out at my place :^(
If you're gonna pull a lot of girls then you probly will get the odd rejection on the way. But don't sweat it, just dont try too hard and go for it with someone. Rejection isn't so bad cos you'll probably never see her again anyway.
Be casual, not too full on (or clingy as you said) and make it seem like you've done it loads of times before and not that you're actually shaking at the knees :-)
You can watch the lynx-reeking wannabe alpha-males dancing at somebody, can appreciate the angry-hen clusters of shiny-cheeked smirnoff-ice downing hosers without having to actually take part.
Strangely, indifference & barely concealed loathing seems to be spanish fly. I remember the one time I went to "Jumpin' Jax" in Harlow as a favour to a new guy at work who didn't know anybody in the area. He got trollied and tried his luck, I stood in a corner and kept looking at the time on my phone.
"You awite maaaayyyyyte?" shrieks some vacous manhole
"I'm fine"
"Aintya dancing?"
"No"
"Why not?"
"I dont want to. Please go and bother somebody else"
"Woss your problem?"
"You're 14 and I'm pi**ed off. Go away"
Chatup lines? Are you 16?
Dance, make eye contact, and look to see how she reacts.
Good reaction (shy smile or she maintains eye contact) = go for it.
No reaction/bad reaction = don't embarass yourself by trying.
Don't bother chasing the ones that just look like they want the attention though, they either come to you or you ignore them.