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"Pulling In Clubs"

Okay, I need advice.

It's been ages since I've pulled in a club, especially in circumstances where you can't really talk (on the dancefloor), and I've totally lost the feel for it.

However, I've improved myself a bit recently, leading to more opportunities. I've had opportunities before, but not really been sure how to make a move (in opportunities where I 'would').
Last night was a blatant example of this - total opportunity with a really hot woman, and decent opportunities with a couple of other hot women.

I'd rather a long term relationship, but I don't have a problem with casual sex, and you wouldn't either if you saw that girl :^P


So, pulling on a dancefloor, where you can't really talk. Help Mumbai get laid :^D

I totally failed on all accounts on holiday.

Though, I was in totally wrong place. Bloody clubland with a bunch England top, high lighted hair gits. The music made me want to kill myself.

We had a section of beach near our apartment though. I used to meet up with some decent people there for a smoke and a much on some food.

Anyway, I'm useless and have no advice. I'm alright if I know people before I go out then expand on that but not strangers.

Stryke wrote:
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> Plus she didn't like Buffy. Loser.


*scratches head*

In a nightclub?

Grow very thick skin, steel yourself for some rejections, and just 'cking ask. Hell, most of the women are there for the same reason as you. The law of averages says you'll find one who'll let you push your pee-pee up her foo-foo.

Time_Warp wrote:
> Stryke wrote:
> I'm a fan of the minimal effort
> approach.
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> And in turn a receiver of the minimal success approach? :-)

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2/3 girls per uni term, that's my general rule of thumb. There was one girl I really liked, so I made a move, and it worked out for a bit until we realised we didn't work. At all.

Plus she didn't like Buffy. Loser.

When I'm drunk I tend to become gratingly and laughingly cynical of everyone around me, much to the amusement of myself. My friends put up with it, but i doubt a 'honey' in a club would. Even if they were super hot, I'd still hate them :S

Stryke wrote:
I'm a fan of the minimal effort
> approach.
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And in turn a receiver of the minimal success approach? :-)


Most ladies wont make the first move, unless they are totally wasted and / or up for it kinda gals. Thats what I've seen / been told anywho.

Tiltawhirl wrote:
> Offering a drink or asking her some insincere question is usually a
> good way to break the ice.

Because it's so easy to pose questions without talking...

Tiltawhirl wrote:
> hell most the girls
> I've hooked up with in clubs have had to make the first move.

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Yup, that's the way forward. I'm a fan of the minimal effort approach.

Being drunk helps

Mumbai Duck wrote:
> So, pulling on a dancefloor, where you can't really talk. Help Mumbai
> get laid :^D

Either: -

1) Dress like a tart.
2) Don't go to nightclubs.

Lick her head like Wacko.
No idea. I've never been on a dancefloor.