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"Grrr I hate my mate's mate...."

Right, I have this mate who recently moved in with one of his mates so they could split the rent in their flat. Now I am quite close with this guy and I talk to him about a lot of stuff that I don't talk to anyone else about. However now that he has moved in with this guy I find it impossible to tell who I am talking to on MSN!! My mates MSN messenger doesn't automatically sign in but it has all his details saved so when you open MSN Messenger you just have to press a button to log into his account. I KNOW his mate who I barely know at all is doing this because he doesn't say things or act like my mate in anyways what so ever. Sometimes I know I am talking to my mate but whenever he goes to get something to eat or goes to the bathroom his mate takes over and starts talking to me pretending to be him too. Sometimes he admits it but sometimes it just goes on and on and it really gets on my t!ts. I miss having someone I can really talk to about stuff and I don't want to tell him stuff I really don't trust him with.

Now I know loads of you are going to say "How can you be sure it's not really him and your just being paranoid?!" Or something to that effect but believe me I have known this guy for about a year and a half now I think I know the difference between him and some random mate of his playing mind games with me. Anyway yeh that's REALLY getting on my nerves. Any suggestions that doesn't involve sending letter bombs to their appartment to get him to badger off?

Cub!st wrote:
> Well I shall work to keep my "general" gay-ness to a
> minimum. Errr, yeh. Anyway sorry to her your best mate turned out to
> be untrustworthy, there's a kick in the teeth if ever I heard one.

you don't know the half of it, i've always been particulary open about what i say, well not any more.

Well I shall work to keep my "general" gay-ness to a minimum. Errr, yeh. Anyway sorry to her your best mate turned out to be untrustworthy, there's a kick in the teeth if ever I heard one.

Cub!st wrote:
> Buh, I knew I shouldn't have said "Quite close with this
> guy". All I meant was that he was a better friend than a few of
> my others. Don't you all have a friend who you are, for lack of a
> better word, "closer" to and that if you had a problem
> you'd go to them instead of anyone else?

i didnt even notice that, it just a general thing.
there's nothing wrong with having close friends i used to have one but he proved to be untrustworthy so now i have no-one.

Buh, I knew I shouldn't have said "Quite close with this guy". All I meant was that he was a better friend than a few of my others. Don't you all have a friend who you are, for lack of a better word, "closer" to and that if you had a problem you'd go to them instead of anyone else?

ßora† §agdiyeV wrote:
> so without putting too fine a point on it - you are gay aren't you
> cubist? I don't have a problem with that or anything, and I
> apologise if it's not the case, but you certainly come across as
> being 'gay as carrots' .....

got to say i thought the same thing.
no offense meant cubist

P.s. How are carrots gay lol?

If I was gay, I'd tell you

so without putting too fine a point on it - you are gay aren't you cubist? I don't have a problem with that or anything, and I apologise if it's not the case, but you certainly come across as being 'gay as carrots' .....

ßora† §agdiyeV wrote:
> a long and meaningful relationship with lady liquor ....

He was there the first time I got drunk in England. Ohh the memories.

Colourless wrote:
> No i mean, if you have something you need to talk to him about, as a
> mate, then call him and tell him whats on your mind.

Hmm I suppose although it's just so much more conveniant on Messenger. I probably should use the phone more and I will now but I am still really hacked off at his mate. Such a \/\/ank stain.

English_Bloke wrote:
> If you love him, you'll run to him

*ponders*