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Wed 07/01/04 at 15:33
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"Wanking Mong"
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"Do you swear to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth?" Anyone with a passing familiarity with the legal system as seen in the world of film and TV will recognise those words as one of the cornerstones of a trial (when I first head them spoken in a real trial I had to stifle a giggle; I was half expecting the defendant to bark "You can't handle the truth" at the court clerk...). It's a ritual formula that assumes there is a definitive story behind whatever chain of events led to some poor b*stard standing in the dock. I've always assumed the same; that most events in life have a clear beginning, middle, and an end. And there is always one version of the story that is the pure, unvarnished truth. But now I'm not so sure. I've just finished a relationship that, although it was unquestionably the right thing to do, I didn't hugely want to end. I did so because of my obsession with knowing 'the truth'. So this seems as good a time as any to ask if there really is any such thing as a universal truth.

For example, think of any event witnessed by yourself and some of your friends. If I were to ask each and every one of you what happened at that event, would your stories be exactly the same? Of course they wouldn't; unless you'd had time to get your stories straight then everyone would give a slightly different version (I once sat in on police interviews with 3 clients accused of burglary. Their stories matched identically. Right down to the exact words used in answer to the questions. Astoundingly, the police didn't believe them. Mind you, I was their solicitor, and neither did I). Does that mean that one of you is telling the truth and the others are all lying? Well, perhaps it does (I'm sure we've all been guilty of embellishing a story), but I think it more likely that all of you will promise faithfully that you are giving me the truth.

So what does that mean? That we're a race of chronic liars (or, to use the correct name for a group of liars, lawyers)? Well, I like to display a little more faith in my fellow man, so I'm going to say that it does not (though if we really are all predisposed towards lying, that's probably another fib). What I think it does demonstrate is that the truth, far from always being something immutable and fixed in stone, is a little more flexible than we may have thought. The truth varies according to who it was that witnessed the event, and what their perception of it was.

Okay; that sounds like abstract bumslop of the worst kind so I'll explain myself a little more. The best place to see that the truth varies depending on your own perceptions is, perversely, politics. Usually, the wide and varied political spectrum is split into two for ease of identifying where one's basic sympathies are; left wing and right wing (or Liberal and Conservative). It is rare indeed that you'll find any sort of agreement between these two sides (mainly because the Conservatives want to preserve all the existing evils and injustices of the world. Liberals want to replace them with an entirely new set of evils and injustices), and you will see this being reflected in the media. There are left wing papers (The Guardian, The Mirror) and right wing (The Times, The Mail). Generally speaking they report on much the same stories. But the reports are rather different to one another.

Take the recent and continuing war in Iraq. Should you read the Mail (assuming you can find news about the war in between the pages and pages of jingoistic, anti-immigrant bile) , then the invasion wasn't just necessary, it was an imperative. It was about freeing a nation from a tyrant. The subsequent steady stream of dead soldiers and civilians is regrettable but shouldn't affect our resolve to bring freedom to the Iraqi people. If however you read the Guardian, then the war is nothing more than a grab for resources by the Americans. The soldiers dying every day are evidence that the Iraqi people don't want the kind of freedom offered to them by an invading army. The indisputable fact is that Iraq was invaded. Yet here are two wildly different versions of just why it happened, and what the result is.

I have my own bias; I'm more inclined to find the left wing version of events more to my liking. And I can produce all manner of reasons and justifications as to why I believe it that are, in my mind, unassailable. Yet I've spoken to people who are equally as adamant that the political right is, well, right. And they (well...some of them) can produce completely valid facts and figures that would seem to prove that they are correct and I am mistaken (and what with my temper, mistaken at the top of my voice). How can this be? Well, mainly because we look for the facts that back up our beliefs and then do our best to either ignore those tricky points that debunk our opinions, or we look for more facts to make those troublesome opposing ideas seem like naively held beliefs at best, lies at worst.

Of course, I'm just talking about people who are able to articulate just why they hold the beliefs they do, and why they believe in one version of events rather than another. I'm excluding entirely another category of people; those screeching idiots who are only able to shout down an opposing view. I'm inclined to believe that these people are not remotely interested in the truth, be it universal or not. Being too stupid to have any actual beliefs of their own, they are interested only in one thing; being seen to be right. Happily, these people are incredibly easy to humiliate into silence; try pressing them on specific facts and watch them dissolve into a red-faced, teary-eyed mess reduced to ranting "You're wrong!" ad infinitum. Unfortunately, an awful lot of these type of people seem to hold fairly important positions in society, and so it means we actually give credence to the menstrual waste that they laughably refer to as their version of the truth.

As a side note, if I had to pick one of the many insultingly idiotic arguments used by this group of people to justify why their blinkered Me-Muppetry cannot be disproved by any available facts as the worst, it would have to be "The media is biased towards the Liberals/Conservatives (delete according to political affiliation), so they will never report facts that prove what I say is right. Not that they have to, because I'm right and I know I am. And if you disagree, you're an idiot". These are always the same people who will cheerfully refer to newspaper articles that support whatever they're braying out as proof of how clever they are. Funnily, they only accuse the media of bias when they produce something that disagrees with them, but I digress.

What I'm driving at in this little rant is that we cannot expect to get a nice, neat version of events that is the undisputed truth. Usually, an event happens. Then different people give their different perceptions of what happened. We then have to look at those different perceptions and make up our own minds as to where the truth lies. As a race, we seem inclined to look for something that fits the 'story' structure; we look for explanations that have a clearly defined beginning, middle, and end. The fact that our lives rarely fit the storybook mould doesn't seem to bother us; we expect the rest of the world to do so. So it's not really the truth we look for, but the story that we're most inclined to hear.

But of course, that's just my perception of the truth. Yours could be completely different.
Wed 07/01/04 at 15:33
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"Wanking Mong"
Posts: 4,884
"Do you swear to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth?" Anyone with a passing familiarity with the legal system as seen in the world of film and TV will recognise those words as one of the cornerstones of a trial (when I first head them spoken in a real trial I had to stifle a giggle; I was half expecting the defendant to bark "You can't handle the truth" at the court clerk...). It's a ritual formula that assumes there is a definitive story behind whatever chain of events led to some poor b*stard standing in the dock. I've always assumed the same; that most events in life have a clear beginning, middle, and an end. And there is always one version of the story that is the pure, unvarnished truth. But now I'm not so sure. I've just finished a relationship that, although it was unquestionably the right thing to do, I didn't hugely want to end. I did so because of my obsession with knowing 'the truth'. So this seems as good a time as any to ask if there really is any such thing as a universal truth.

For example, think of any event witnessed by yourself and some of your friends. If I were to ask each and every one of you what happened at that event, would your stories be exactly the same? Of course they wouldn't; unless you'd had time to get your stories straight then everyone would give a slightly different version (I once sat in on police interviews with 3 clients accused of burglary. Their stories matched identically. Right down to the exact words used in answer to the questions. Astoundingly, the police didn't believe them. Mind you, I was their solicitor, and neither did I). Does that mean that one of you is telling the truth and the others are all lying? Well, perhaps it does (I'm sure we've all been guilty of embellishing a story), but I think it more likely that all of you will promise faithfully that you are giving me the truth.

So what does that mean? That we're a race of chronic liars (or, to use the correct name for a group of liars, lawyers)? Well, I like to display a little more faith in my fellow man, so I'm going to say that it does not (though if we really are all predisposed towards lying, that's probably another fib). What I think it does demonstrate is that the truth, far from always being something immutable and fixed in stone, is a little more flexible than we may have thought. The truth varies according to who it was that witnessed the event, and what their perception of it was.

Okay; that sounds like abstract bumslop of the worst kind so I'll explain myself a little more. The best place to see that the truth varies depending on your own perceptions is, perversely, politics. Usually, the wide and varied political spectrum is split into two for ease of identifying where one's basic sympathies are; left wing and right wing (or Liberal and Conservative). It is rare indeed that you'll find any sort of agreement between these two sides (mainly because the Conservatives want to preserve all the existing evils and injustices of the world. Liberals want to replace them with an entirely new set of evils and injustices), and you will see this being reflected in the media. There are left wing papers (The Guardian, The Mirror) and right wing (The Times, The Mail). Generally speaking they report on much the same stories. But the reports are rather different to one another.

Take the recent and continuing war in Iraq. Should you read the Mail (assuming you can find news about the war in between the pages and pages of jingoistic, anti-immigrant bile) , then the invasion wasn't just necessary, it was an imperative. It was about freeing a nation from a tyrant. The subsequent steady stream of dead soldiers and civilians is regrettable but shouldn't affect our resolve to bring freedom to the Iraqi people. If however you read the Guardian, then the war is nothing more than a grab for resources by the Americans. The soldiers dying every day are evidence that the Iraqi people don't want the kind of freedom offered to them by an invading army. The indisputable fact is that Iraq was invaded. Yet here are two wildly different versions of just why it happened, and what the result is.

I have my own bias; I'm more inclined to find the left wing version of events more to my liking. And I can produce all manner of reasons and justifications as to why I believe it that are, in my mind, unassailable. Yet I've spoken to people who are equally as adamant that the political right is, well, right. And they (well...some of them) can produce completely valid facts and figures that would seem to prove that they are correct and I am mistaken (and what with my temper, mistaken at the top of my voice). How can this be? Well, mainly because we look for the facts that back up our beliefs and then do our best to either ignore those tricky points that debunk our opinions, or we look for more facts to make those troublesome opposing ideas seem like naively held beliefs at best, lies at worst.

Of course, I'm just talking about people who are able to articulate just why they hold the beliefs they do, and why they believe in one version of events rather than another. I'm excluding entirely another category of people; those screeching idiots who are only able to shout down an opposing view. I'm inclined to believe that these people are not remotely interested in the truth, be it universal or not. Being too stupid to have any actual beliefs of their own, they are interested only in one thing; being seen to be right. Happily, these people are incredibly easy to humiliate into silence; try pressing them on specific facts and watch them dissolve into a red-faced, teary-eyed mess reduced to ranting "You're wrong!" ad infinitum. Unfortunately, an awful lot of these type of people seem to hold fairly important positions in society, and so it means we actually give credence to the menstrual waste that they laughably refer to as their version of the truth.

As a side note, if I had to pick one of the many insultingly idiotic arguments used by this group of people to justify why their blinkered Me-Muppetry cannot be disproved by any available facts as the worst, it would have to be "The media is biased towards the Liberals/Conservatives (delete according to political affiliation), so they will never report facts that prove what I say is right. Not that they have to, because I'm right and I know I am. And if you disagree, you're an idiot". These are always the same people who will cheerfully refer to newspaper articles that support whatever they're braying out as proof of how clever they are. Funnily, they only accuse the media of bias when they produce something that disagrees with them, but I digress.

What I'm driving at in this little rant is that we cannot expect to get a nice, neat version of events that is the undisputed truth. Usually, an event happens. Then different people give their different perceptions of what happened. We then have to look at those different perceptions and make up our own minds as to where the truth lies. As a race, we seem inclined to look for something that fits the 'story' structure; we look for explanations that have a clearly defined beginning, middle, and end. The fact that our lives rarely fit the storybook mould doesn't seem to bother us; we expect the rest of the world to do so. So it's not really the truth we look for, but the story that we're most inclined to hear.

But of course, that's just my perception of the truth. Yours could be completely different.
Wed 07/01/04 at 17:17
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"twothousandandtits"
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Truth....doesn't exist. It's a man made thing. It's all about language, and language is a product of humanity; created in order to communicate with one another. When someone tells you about an event, that's nothing more than a stream of language coming at you. Just words, that we've agreed, as a race, to stand for something. You could never say a set of words "are what happened" at a certain time on a certain day - it just doesn't make sense.

Like you say, one person's version of events can be different from another's. That's not to say any of them are wrong, or in fact right. Using a different set of words can still create the same image, depict the same scene. None of those accounts could be said to correct, as they're merely words. The end result depends entirely on the speaker and the listener, and because different words mean different things to different people, this could vary vastly.

I'm repeating myself, but the basic point is that as long as we are humans, we operate from a subjective point of view and depend upon language, which is decidedly dodgy for use with anything as grand as "the truth".
Wed 07/01/04 at 18:39
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"Laughingstock"
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I like Blank's answer.

Objectivity and subjectivity are so inter-mingled that it's almost impossible to get 'at' the truth. And then there's the ingredient of motives: that people are motivated (whether consciously or subconsciously) by the will-to-power/the will-to-self-empowerment.
Look at court cases: do the lawyers want to find out the truth or do they want to win the case?

Sticky subject.
Wed 07/01/04 at 23:00
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"relocated"
Posts: 2,833
I used to think that there was one absolute truth (the one I believed in obviously) and that anyone could be convinced of it if only the right words could be found. I did politics at university for a year and came to a different conclusion: that although essays, polemics and treatises are quite good at forming people's opinions, they're not very good at CHANGING them. I came to university with a set of beliefs (dirty, smoking communism) that changed very little, however much right-wing stuff I read. I added a few opinions after reading Marx's stuff about the alienation of labour (great material for dinner parties), and became more of an anarchist after having the misfortune to attend a meeting of the Socialist Worker's Party (deodorant is clearly seen as a tool of capitalist oppression). But my basic beliefs didn't change at all. I think future revolutionaries should forget about pamphlets and just stand outside secondary schools handing out free fags to anyone willing to fight the oppressor.

Blank wrote:
> I'm repeating myself, but the basic point is that as long as we are
> humans, we operate from a subjective point of view and depend upon
> language, which is decidedly dodgy for use with anything as grand as
> "the truth".

I'm reading an excellent book at the moment called Quicksilver by Neal Stephenson. It's a semi-accurate historical novel about Isaac Newton and various other 17th Century scientists getting involved with various political intrigues and syphillitic ladies of the night. Rip-roaring stuff. Anyway, one of the things they're working on is the Universal Philosophical Language that would allow words to be used like numbers (rat + wings = bird, I think) and mean that any grammatically correct phrase in UPL was indisputably the TRUTH. I haven't finished the book yet but I'm guessing that this project failed.
Wed 07/01/04 at 23:03
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"None Stored"
Posts: 207
2+2=4, thats true. We all know that is true.

But what if it wasnt?

*Spooky music haunts the forum*
Sun 11/01/04 at 22:18
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"twothousandandtits"
Posts: 11,024
unknown kernel wrote:
> I'm reading an excellent book at the moment called Quicksilver by
> Neal Stephenson. It's a semi-accurate historical novel about Isaac
> Newton and various other 17th Century scientists getting involved
> with various political intrigues and syphillitic ladies of the night.
> Rip-roaring stuff. Anyway, one of the things they're working on is
> the Universal Philosophical Language that would allow words to be
> used like numbers (rat + wings = bird, I think) and mean that any
> grammatically correct phrase in UPL was indisputably the TRUTH. I
> haven't finished the book yet but I'm guessing that this project
> failed.

Sounds interesting, I might give it a look. Although it'll be a while - exams for the next few weeks.
Mon 12/01/04 at 10:33
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"Gundammmmm!"
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There is no truth, only what we find acceptable, because truth is a human idea which relies on human defins**tion.

Or, alternatively, the truth of most things is simple and s**t is humans who stand in the way of s**t and seek to twist and redefine s**t. E.g. How many burglars in court have been defended ws**th the (similar) words "my client only did so because he is addicted to drugs/had a poor upbringing/was abused/etc" when the truth of the matter is that the 'client' is a ls**ttle s*s**t ws**th ls**ttle respsect for others property.
Mon 12/01/04 at 16:54
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"relocated"
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Blank wrote:
> Sounds interesting, I might give it a look. Although it'll be a while
> - exams for the next few weeks.

You might want to start with another Neil Stephenson book first: Quicksilver is 900 pages long and only the first part of a trilogy that is all going to be published this year. I don't have much time for reading at the moment and it's taking me an age to get through. And having got the hardback for Christmas I just found out last night that there are twenty pages missing from the middle of the book - so either I go and read them in a bookshop or pitch up at a random bookshop demanding a replacement copy.

I think my favourite book of his was The Diamond Age, which is about nanotechnology in a neo-Victorian society. I don't like sci-fi as a rule but absolutely loved that book. Cryptonomicon and Snow Crash are also excellent.

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