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"Goood Afternoon Guys :)"

I was wondering.
You know that girl or guy you've always dreamed about being with but you still like aren't?
Tell me about them.
What makes them so nice? :)

Sonic Chris wrote:
> Thanks Hippyman :) I barely see her anymore anyway. Originally,
> it was every night, MSN, chatting into the early hours, but as
> we've got older, it's sort of got worse. Who needs women, i've
> got an xbox ^^ (although i'd trade my xbox anyday for a woman).
> Call the award a WAD (Woman and .... Design award? :S)

Thats good to hear. Yeah, even cancelling the "friend" to go out on a date tomorrow. That will put things in perspective.

How about a Woman and Date award? :p

And Alfonse i know the feeling. Its horrible - all the ones i have fallen for just want me as friends. You then want a friend out of somebody then they fall for you (and funnily enough there is always a role reversal in everyone of these!)

hippyman wrote:
> Sonic Chris wrote:
> I feel for you man. I've seen this girl go through countless
> ars*holes. I seem to be the only guy she won't give a shot.
> Asked
> her out couple of months back, she said she wasn't ready for
> another relationship (in other words, no). Women can be
> heartless...
>
> Best thing to do in that situation is stop being so available to
> her. I went through the same with a girl. I've only just
> managed to convert myself to the just friends, but it's great - I
> dictate really when we meet up, rather than being at her beck and
> call. That way, she'll either discover she really likes you
> (make or break time) or if she isn't that bothered, then you have
> the time to startlooking about and give yourself a break from the
> horrible feelings you are going through.

Thanks Hippyman :) I barely see her anymore anyway. Originally, it was every night, MSN, chatting into the early hours, but as we've got older, it's sort of got worse. Who needs women, i've got an xbox ^^ (although i'd trade my xbox anyday for a woman). Call the award a WAD (Woman and .... Design award? :S)

Hmm. So come on guys. What are your general approaches when dealing with women?
I'm not really a friends first kinda guy, but if you are genuinely interested in a friendship with a girl, and not a relationship, more often than not, she'll fall for you, which is quite bad really.

I just make my intentions clear from the start, just go for what you want otherwise you'll end up stuck in a relationship when you want sex or as some slutty bootycall when you want something meaningful.

Sonic Chris wrote:
> I feel for you man. I've seen this girl go through countless
> ars*holes. I seem to be the only guy she won't give a shot. Asked
> her out couple of months back, she said she wasn't ready for
> another relationship (in other words, no). Women can be
> heartless...

Best thing to do in that situation is stop being so available to her. I went through the same with a girl. I've only just managed to convert myself to the just friends, but it's great - I dictate really when we meet up, rather than being at her beck and call. That way, she'll either discover she really likes you (make or break time) or if she isn't that bothered, then you have the time to startlooking about and give yourself a break from the horrible feelings you are going through.

gud afternoon :-)

motomoto wrote:

> Nice ego there Warhunt!
>
> Jokes :)

Lol sounds a bit ego-y don't it? But hell its not based on that, just the fact that most have liked me in some fashion like that because of being honest etc. Just make em laugh etc

All the cliches work in most cases to be honest.

Dragonlance wrote:
> BlackholeAlfonse wrote:
>
> I never had this problem with my most recent girlfriend but
> maybe it's because I didn't like her that much.
>
> I take it that you haven't confided this information with her
> yet....

Lol,
we both knew the score when we got into the relatio.
She's stolen property herself so.....

BlackholeAlfonse wrote:

> I never had this problem with my most recent girlfriend but
> maybe it's because I didn't like her that much.

I take it that you haven't confided this information with her yet....

Warhunt wrote:
> Thankfully though it turns out most girls who are mates with me
> have fancied me in some way at some point (although to be honest
> this is mainly because I always have a gf at the time :( )

Nice ego there Warhunt!

Jokes :)

Warhunt, I don't know what it is really? Lack of anything good to say :(
I never had this problem with my most recent girlfriend but maybe it's because I didn't like her that much.