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"What to do?"

So my sister's started being a bit of a.. well, read on. (note: not airing lame sibbling bickering. I think.)

She's 18, just finished A-levels, thinking about going for some part time training stuff, maybe, and working in a nearby restaurant.
Thing is, she's becoming a bit of a mong. She takes liberties with the new boss at her work and b!tches about him when he mentions anything (eg, borrowed money from him, told him to f*** off when he asked her to pay it back, stuff like that), and generally treats everyone else pretty craply too.
Also, she's seeing a guy who's also a mong. I think she decided to see him because he fitted her mong ideals, rather than him being responsible for breaking her, but it probably accelerates her descent into.. ned-dom?

I really feel like as her brother I should be doing something to bring her back from the brink.
But not only do I not know what to do about it, I only have about a month before I go to Canada for a year.
Hmmm.


So, what can I do to help my sister?
Or should I stop being such a judgemental t**t?

tell her to grow up.

She is 18 years old, has a job.
It's right to be worried your sister is still acting like she is in her early teens. She has to learn that in the Big wide world she cant treat everyone like cack and get away with it. It will swing back at her. She needs to be told as she is probably so wrapped up in herself and her bloke that she isn't thinking of others and doesn't realise.

It be best for her. *but dodge from the b$tch slap*

O yea...treating your boss like poo!? Good move!! She'll wanna keep her job as well..

*shudders*

:^P

And send her over to Chez Goat afterwards.

Guess that's the answer then.

Always nice when the best thing to do is also the easy way out :^)

Let her get on with it, but try to be there for her when her entire life turns to sloppy whale faeces.

After a damn good beating with her own shoes

Or just leave her to live her own life?

A damn good beating is what she needs

Dr Duck wrote:
> Dr Duck wrote:
> Hypocrite, manipulative, self-serving, abusive, often cruel.
>



In that case leave her alone. It's not your fault she is like that. Like Ms NY said she will eventually sort herself out, so why should you waste time trying to help her? If she is a mong then she won't appreciate your assistance and you will just have your feelings hurt.

Dr Duck wrote:
> So, what can I do to help my sister?
> Or should I stop being such a judgemental t**t?

ummm....

the last one! :D