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Have any of you ever done something 'so' bad that you've never been able to forget about it? So much that it haunts you? And worry that it's always going to be with you. I'm sure there are a lot of people like that, but some people can easily deal with things and close that door and open a new one.
There was this thing that happened when I was 16 and even though I'm 17, I can't stop thinking about it. I think about it almost every night before I go to sleep, if I can manage to get to sleep! And I'm sure it has ruined the relationship I have with my family.
I'd prefer not to say what it is, as it's still hard to talk about(even though you're strangers!). And it is pretty much 'illegal'.
Since it happened, there have been a lot of changes, some noticable, some not. Eg. Confidence has decreased hugely, weight loss, have become less sociable, constantly stressed, find it hard to sleep but sometimes can't stop sleeping, nervous, slightly paranoid...
But basically. Just wanted to know if you have ever had this kind of problem. Or have ever had a hard time getting over something?
Thanks =)
There was this thing that happened when I was 16 and even though I'm 17, I can't stop thinking about it. I think about it almost every night before I go to sleep, if I can manage to get to sleep! And I'm sure it has ruined the relationship I have with my family.
I'd prefer not to say what it is, as it's still hard to talk about(even though you're strangers!). And it is pretty much 'illegal'.
Since it happened, there have been a lot of changes, some noticable, some not. Eg. Confidence has decreased hugely, weight loss, have become less sociable, constantly stressed, find it hard to sleep but sometimes can't stop sleeping, nervous, slightly paranoid...
But basically. Just wanted to know if you have ever had this kind of problem. Or have ever had a hard time getting over something?
Thanks =)
You do sometimes u dont even say it and regret it
I do that as well. I also have conversations in my head to prepare me for what to say in a certain situation.
I don't generally have that problem, but I do have some other problems to do with memories:
Whenever I've talked to someone, gone out with someone, hell, even glanced at someone, I think to myself , once I've got a spare moment, 'How could I have handled that better?' I'm constantly putting myself under pressure, wondering how people have reacted to what I've said and stuff I've done.
Telepathy would help, but that would take the fun out of life, though, wouldn't it?
Whenever I've talked to someone, gone out with someone, hell, even glanced at someone, I think to myself , once I've got a spare moment, 'How could I have handled that better?' I'm constantly putting myself under pressure, wondering how people have reacted to what I've said and stuff I've done.
Telepathy would help, but that would take the fun out of life, though, wouldn't it?
Yep i have atm it haunts me sometimes about my past, cos i've done some stupid things in my life tho however some stuff i can still do whenever i think is the right moment to do it, that i didnt do in the past.
Indeed yes. There have been a few occasions when i have done something stupid and i just wish i could turn the clock back. Im a bit of a worrier myself, and these things can bug me for a while after theyve happened. Eventually though, i just forget what they were and move on.
A lot of people go through this and you'll have a lot more experiences that you'll rather forget about as you get older.
I'm in a similar position to you. I did something "illegal" a few years agp and for a long time I was just wishing that I could turn back time and undo what I did. Then again, that time I got caught and it stopped me from being such an idiot. It's quite funny but I feel worse about the stuff I did that I didn't get caught for.
My friends don't understand when I talk about about stuff like that, they just laugh it off and tell me to stop being so soft.
Life throws up stuff like this every-so-often and you have to learn to deal with it. I have now and I can safely say I am a different person because of it. I'm not as angry anymore and stuff rolls off my back now when it got me in a rage a few years ago.
Chill out, don't worry about it and look after yourself. Get out more too. Socialising(sp) and having fun will help you cope.
I'm in a similar position to you. I did something "illegal" a few years agp and for a long time I was just wishing that I could turn back time and undo what I did. Then again, that time I got caught and it stopped me from being such an idiot. It's quite funny but I feel worse about the stuff I did that I didn't get caught for.
My friends don't understand when I talk about about stuff like that, they just laugh it off and tell me to stop being so soft.
Life throws up stuff like this every-so-often and you have to learn to deal with it. I have now and I can safely say I am a different person because of it. I'm not as angry anymore and stuff rolls off my back now when it got me in a rage a few years ago.
Chill out, don't worry about it and look after yourself. Get out more too. Socialising(sp) and having fun will help you cope.
Have any of you ever done something 'so' bad that you've never been able to forget about it? So much that it haunts you? And worry that it's always going to be with you. I'm sure there are a lot of people like that, but some people can easily deal with things and close that door and open a new one.
There was this thing that happened when I was 16 and even though I'm 17, I can't stop thinking about it. I think about it almost every night before I go to sleep, if I can manage to get to sleep! And I'm sure it has ruined the relationship I have with my family.
I'd prefer not to say what it is, as it's still hard to talk about(even though you're strangers!). And it is pretty much 'illegal'.
Since it happened, there have been a lot of changes, some noticable, some not. Eg. Confidence has decreased hugely, weight loss, have become less sociable, constantly stressed, find it hard to sleep but sometimes can't stop sleeping, nervous, slightly paranoid...
But basically. Just wanted to know if you have ever had this kind of problem. Or have ever had a hard time getting over something?
Thanks =)
There was this thing that happened when I was 16 and even though I'm 17, I can't stop thinking about it. I think about it almost every night before I go to sleep, if I can manage to get to sleep! And I'm sure it has ruined the relationship I have with my family.
I'd prefer not to say what it is, as it's still hard to talk about(even though you're strangers!). And it is pretty much 'illegal'.
Since it happened, there have been a lot of changes, some noticable, some not. Eg. Confidence has decreased hugely, weight loss, have become less sociable, constantly stressed, find it hard to sleep but sometimes can't stop sleeping, nervous, slightly paranoid...
But basically. Just wanted to know if you have ever had this kind of problem. Or have ever had a hard time getting over something?
Thanks =)