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"Is sex important to you?"

In a relationship I mean. how important is it to you? Do you NEED it? Why do you NEED it? Is change important to you in respect to sex? for example positions or the partner you are with? If the partenr you are with is rubbish, would you tell them? If your partner is brillaint, would you tell them? If your partner told you you were rubbish, how would you react? And if you were married, or getting married, could you handle only having sex with that one person for the rest of your life, or do you think you may stray??

Just interested.

I have to admit, I think about sex a LOT more than I actually partake in it. It's not major to me. Yeah, when I see a girl I like the look of, my initial reaction is that I'd like to dish out the devastation, but the girls I know and like, I could be perfectly happy just being with them... and the sex would be some sort of amazing bonus. Niiiiiice.

No, I enjoy it and I think, if used correctly, sex can add to a relationship as another way of showing how you care for someone. Of course, this also includes many other aspects such as taking the time to learn each other's bodies.

Well, that and the other kind when you are drunk and just fancy a bit...

im presuming so

Arwen Undomiel wrote:
> one of my friends says she has sex with her bf every night without
> fail, even if they are tired, ill or whatever...


Even when she's on the blob?

I agree with "The Goat".

Familiarity breeds comtempt. Variety is the spice of life. And other equally inane phrases. Men, as such, are hunters and aren't satisfied with one person for the rest of their life. I mean, some people can happily marry and live with one person but others simply cannot be tied down to one person let alone have sex with same person for the rest of their life.

Hmm...reading back, this doesn't make much sense, but in my mind I know what I'm trying to say...I think.

Depends.
If it's with a different person everyday then sure.
Same person? Nope.
I like mash, but I dont want it for every meal.

one of my friends says she has sex with her bf every night without fail, even if they are tired, ill or whatever...

do you beleive that that is possible for men? I mean I would get bored if I had sex evey night or morning or whenever. I think it is nice to have a breather from it for a few days as it makes it really nice or special when you do have it.

could you have sex eveyday, whatever time, male and femal answers appreiciated...

For me, yeah it is. The physical side of a relationship must be fulfilled or else the relationship falters...well, it does for me. Not that I don't feel platonic love for other friends, it's just different, that's all.

Sometimes it is. Other times it isn't.

I enjoy it greatly.
It's not like I'll die or get moody if I dont. Sometimes I dont fancy it, sometimes I do.
Depends.

As for being told I'm crap. Hasn't happened. I'm sure some have been polite and were just saying that etc, but at the end of the day I don't care if it's not a long-term relationship.
Sorry to sound callous but there you go - the old adage 9/10 women have faked orgasm at some point but 10/10 blokes couldn't give a monkeys.

If it's "making love", then you take into consideration the other person and blah blah.
If it's just sex then fair's fair, I'll race you to the finish.