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that text message last nite was untrue,pointless,and frankly if you believe that then you obviously don't know me as well as you think you do.you weren't calling me a child when you were ******* me for 8months.i didn't want to give you reasons because i knew youd hate me for them but to put it bluntly,the feelings mutual at the moment so i dont particularly care if you hate me or not.
1.) theres this couple in work,every time i see them theyre arguing.i didnt want to end up like them,and couldnt,because i hold grudges very easily and when someone im meant to be closest to and i argue i will do just that.
2.) i was bored.towards the end the sex was crap,lasted five minutes and i needed better.and i have done since we broke up.
3.) i didnt want to hurt your feelings by telling you just what i was feeling recently so i left it as it was.us getting on ok and only seeing each other,say at ventures.but that aint gonna happen cos im not gonna go to ventures again because of you.
to me,breaking up is the same as splitting up,not the same as a break.obviously you thought different.that isnt my fault.
if youre going to be like you are right now,then,in all honesty, **** off and leave me alone,because i would be quite happy if i never saw you again.the only thing i regret by sending this is that i'll never be able to talk to emma&co again because they're gonna hate me just as much as you,and i wanted to stay friends with them.
yours "childishly",
bryony
Well thats that then. Its only been a month since we broke up on 'good' terms and its got to this.
And to be honest, I've never felt better about myself. Why, because the majority of this is a pack of lies.
This is all I asked for, an explaination instead of the 'I don't knows'. I'm not going to reply. I can work on my faults now (Oh and have been for some weeks, without her help).
I put on weight when I was with her and that made made me unhappy, I'm going to the gym again and feel ten times fitter than ever.
I love myself.
Job well done.
I'm off for a fag and then shall be posting an expanded "Male Manifesto" call-to-arms.
I always find, woman/job/whatever, it helps to write out an angry email saying exactly what I want to without any censorship. Then delete and write another one.
It gets the venom out, but allows to you be the superior one, wiping her spittle from your cheek and simply walking away leaving her looking stupid instead of getting dragged into a fight.
Hurrah for men helping men!
Thanks for letting me know how you feel. Thats all I ever asked for. My only regret is that I'll never get the good times back I spent with you. And I'll never look back on them fondly, because they have been ruined. I hope you meet someone you deserve.
I turned myself upside down to please you, I ignored my friends here at at home so I could be with you, picking you up from work instead.
This was going to be a nasty and malicious email, you can read it if you want, but I'm better than that.
'You were far more in my imagination than you ever will be' is the best thing that I can think of you.
To be honest with you Bryony, I've never felt better with myself.
The previous email was attached, because there were some relevant points in it which I couldn't put in any better words.
Nowt wrong with writing it all out a few times, bleed the wound.
When I got that somewhat rude email from ex, I just sent a nice simple reply saying "Thanks for letting me know how you feel. My only regret is that I'll never get the time back I spent with you. But no hard feelings, hope you meet someone you deserve"
> *puts hands behind head and feet on desk*
> I'll make sure I phone Giveadamn.com if I need help over Xmas with
> "emotional problems" or something.
LOL....
Thank you for being honest. Thats all I ever wanted, all I ever deserved.
But you could have just said that in the first place, the way you left it really did mess with my head, especially when it was you who contacted me first, and you who kissed me first and kept it going, even when I asked you if you were sure about the whole situation.
Your right Bryony, I never knew you and to be perfectly honest I don't want to. You are ugly inside if you can send this sort of mail to me.
Thank you for bringing up the sex. I thought you would be able to tell that my heart wasn't in it. I mean lying on your back every time it felt like I was a necropheliac
I agree with you that since we broke up the sex has been better but what can I say you were just no match for my right hand from the start and it only lasted 5 minutes because I was dying to fall asleep.
We argued because we wern't having sex, because those fabled pillow talks dried up. You are immature, not a child, but definetly immature, reasons - you do hold grudges against those that you say you love, your total lack of any feeling of guilt and your total lack of respect for me, I should've known the problem and then I could have fixed it. Your relationships will never work if you don't talk to people.
As for you being with someone else already, why should I care. I hope he likes the missionary position otherwise he is in for some real disappointment. People like you are easy to replace, if anything the last week has made that clear to me. I've had more success by not drinking than ever, and I'm getting myself back into shape. You have made me realise that I am actually good person. I hope one day you find the right person (try toys - R - us)
As for Emma & Co you can be friends with, them, its up to them if they want to speak to you. You see when you have the advantage of being mature you can let go of your pride. Coincidently, they all and they agree with me on the immature statement, in fact, they made me realise it and immature does equal childish, if you had some independance in your life that would make you grow up a hell of a lot.
'You were far more in my imagination than you ever will be' is the best thing that I can think of you.
To be honest with you Bryony, I've never felt better with myself than I do now
Now the question is, should I send this.
You get closure, she gets to vent and you realise that you rule.
And they all lived happily ever after.
The response I got was a lot briefer than that. Here's the email I recieved from ex -
"you're right ... you are a ****... **** off
I was thinking of someone else
enjoy your life"
*puts hands behind head and feet on desk*
I'll make sure I phone Giveadamn.com if I need help over Xmas with "emotional problems" or something.
that text message last nite was untrue,pointless,and frankly if you believe that then you obviously don't know me as well as you think you do.you weren't calling me a child when you were ******* me for 8months.i didn't want to give you reasons because i knew youd hate me for them but to put it bluntly,the feelings mutual at the moment so i dont particularly care if you hate me or not.
1.) theres this couple in work,every time i see them theyre arguing.i didnt want to end up like them,and couldnt,because i hold grudges very easily and when someone im meant to be closest to and i argue i will do just that.
2.) i was bored.towards the end the sex was crap,lasted five minutes and i needed better.and i have done since we broke up.
3.) i didnt want to hurt your feelings by telling you just what i was feeling recently so i left it as it was.us getting on ok and only seeing each other,say at ventures.but that aint gonna happen cos im not gonna go to ventures again because of you.
to me,breaking up is the same as splitting up,not the same as a break.obviously you thought different.that isnt my fault.
if youre going to be like you are right now,then,in all honesty, **** off and leave me alone,because i would be quite happy if i never saw you again.the only thing i regret by sending this is that i'll never be able to talk to emma&co again because they're gonna hate me just as much as you,and i wanted to stay friends with them.
yours "childishly",
bryony
Well thats that then. Its only been a month since we broke up on 'good' terms and its got to this.
And to be honest, I've never felt better about myself. Why, because the majority of this is a pack of lies.
This is all I asked for, an explaination instead of the 'I don't knows'. I'm not going to reply. I can work on my faults now (Oh and have been for some weeks, without her help).
I put on weight when I was with her and that made made me unhappy, I'm going to the gym again and feel ten times fitter than ever.
I love myself.