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Thu 21/02/02 at 17:28
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Hi.
I have been looking at various topics recently, talking about bullying. I too was bullied, when i was a wee 12 years old. I don't really want to say why, as I've passed it and it is just a sharp memory. But one kid decided to pick on me.
If you are, or have been bullied. you'll know how it feels. You get shown up, you lose confidence, you become depressed, you become unpopular, you become unattractive and the bully becomes popular (esoecially when no-ones hit puberty, s no-one is mature enogh to think that bullying is sad). The few months, or even longer than that that you are pressured by the bully are unbearable. You get both physically and mentally beaten up. The person is all you think about (mentally) and you get beaten up (physically)

But what's this topic about?
I, believe it or not, actually stopped the bullying single-handedly. No parents, teachers, no-one.


But How?
I know this is going to sound very weird, but all you need is to give the bully a tsaste of their own medicine. I'll now reminisce about how i stopped the bully.

the bully was a fat kid. He was Brazilian, and, now i look back to him, a complete weakling.

if any of you are at the age where you get bullied, your probably asking how I stopped it, so i'll tell you.

he was hurting me, i didn't want to attack back. But one time he really got me to the point of so much depression, i would be shouting and swearing at the only friends i had left. Then I saw him once, he called me something. I smacked him round the jaw, efficiently. After that he never said a bad word to me again. Now this goes against anything your parents tell you.
But fighting fire with fire works. if you are being beaten up, fight back. If the bully is a genuine bully, he will be a lot weaker than you thought. A simple punch round the face should do it. Don't go over the top and clobber him with a Fire extinguisher or hat have you, cos you will probably end up injuring him critically, which will land you in deeper trouble.
If he is calling you stuff, pick something about him and joke about it.
Bullies liek to feel in control. if you answer back, they will soon leave you alone.

But it is also important not to carry it on. If you have hit the bully back, doin't continue to batter him every day. if you leave him after he's stopped, people will respect you a lot sooner. And a while later, he will grow to respect you too.

This is just a note for anyone who is being bullied.

As you hit late puberty, the bully will mature and leave you alone.
If ou are being bullied now, and no-on thinks anyhting of you, don't worry. Follow my guide for help. I used to be unpopular and unattractive. Now i have been in a 6 month relationship with a fairly good looking girl. i have lots of mates, no enemies and i enjoy life. If you are unattractive now, the older you get, girls will begin to appreciate more delicate things, like kindness, and sense of humour, not just looks. If you are unpopular now, people grow up and you will find a lot of them start to appreciate you.

If I made a really great life out of mine, you can too, and you need to start today.

Asher

If you seek further advice from me, e-mail [email protected]
It will be completely secure, but if you want advice, e me and i will reply as soon as possible.

I hope this helped.
Thu 21/02/02 at 17:58
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Posts: 9,494
I did.
Thu 21/02/02 at 17:53
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or read the original Bullying thread by me for lots of examples of people getting through it or just stories of their bullying.
Thu 21/02/02 at 17:42
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Well said Asher. A broken jaw never hurt anyone now did it? :D Read the bullying topic (by coley, I think) for my examples.
Thu 21/02/02 at 17:28
Regular
Posts: 9,494
Hi.
I have been looking at various topics recently, talking about bullying. I too was bullied, when i was a wee 12 years old. I don't really want to say why, as I've passed it and it is just a sharp memory. But one kid decided to pick on me.
If you are, or have been bullied. you'll know how it feels. You get shown up, you lose confidence, you become depressed, you become unpopular, you become unattractive and the bully becomes popular (esoecially when no-ones hit puberty, s no-one is mature enogh to think that bullying is sad). The few months, or even longer than that that you are pressured by the bully are unbearable. You get both physically and mentally beaten up. The person is all you think about (mentally) and you get beaten up (physically)

But what's this topic about?
I, believe it or not, actually stopped the bullying single-handedly. No parents, teachers, no-one.


But How?
I know this is going to sound very weird, but all you need is to give the bully a tsaste of their own medicine. I'll now reminisce about how i stopped the bully.

the bully was a fat kid. He was Brazilian, and, now i look back to him, a complete weakling.

if any of you are at the age where you get bullied, your probably asking how I stopped it, so i'll tell you.

he was hurting me, i didn't want to attack back. But one time he really got me to the point of so much depression, i would be shouting and swearing at the only friends i had left. Then I saw him once, he called me something. I smacked him round the jaw, efficiently. After that he never said a bad word to me again. Now this goes against anything your parents tell you.
But fighting fire with fire works. if you are being beaten up, fight back. If the bully is a genuine bully, he will be a lot weaker than you thought. A simple punch round the face should do it. Don't go over the top and clobber him with a Fire extinguisher or hat have you, cos you will probably end up injuring him critically, which will land you in deeper trouble.
If he is calling you stuff, pick something about him and joke about it.
Bullies liek to feel in control. if you answer back, they will soon leave you alone.

But it is also important not to carry it on. If you have hit the bully back, doin't continue to batter him every day. if you leave him after he's stopped, people will respect you a lot sooner. And a while later, he will grow to respect you too.

This is just a note for anyone who is being bullied.

As you hit late puberty, the bully will mature and leave you alone.
If ou are being bullied now, and no-on thinks anyhting of you, don't worry. Follow my guide for help. I used to be unpopular and unattractive. Now i have been in a 6 month relationship with a fairly good looking girl. i have lots of mates, no enemies and i enjoy life. If you are unattractive now, the older you get, girls will begin to appreciate more delicate things, like kindness, and sense of humour, not just looks. If you are unpopular now, people grow up and you will find a lot of them start to appreciate you.

If I made a really great life out of mine, you can too, and you need to start today.

Asher

If you seek further advice from me, e-mail [email protected]
It will be completely secure, but if you want advice, e me and i will reply as soon as possible.

I hope this helped.

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