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Yeah, sounds like you've got it on the highlights option. That's generally how it plays on default. There aren't many players (sweeping generalisation) who'd be dedicated enough to be watching the full 90 minutes. A lack of highlights for those minutes just generally show that not much is happening. Playing on highlights, i've had entire matches where there hasn't been a single highlight, literally Kick Off -> End of First Half -> Kick Off -> End of Match. If not much is happening it might be worth making a small tactical change to make yourself some more chances.
I haven't really bothered with a FM game since 2009 (wow, back all that way to last season). I find Football Management games to be as good as how immersed and involved you can get into a season. with all FM games, CM4 -> FM08 I generally managed to make it into the 2020s (including a SI forums record for successive league games without a win with Havant & Waterlooville in FM08), but FM09, I found myself struggling to get into the 09/10 season. Partly due to outside stuff, the beginning of university etc., but also I found that I just stopped wanting to play.