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"Threesomes...."

If your girl said she would have a threesome with you and another girl, on the condition that you would also have another threesome with another guy, what would you say?


(take it as the other way around for all you female types here... :D )

Slaveunit wrote:

> Though I woiuld definately be worried about having to 'perform' in
> front of another guy...

That would be very awkward, seeing your mates hard schlong, *shudders*

I'd be sick and cry.

It's interesting that there has not been one response to the mail post saying that I should go for it...

But the issue here is not that it's a problem for our relationship, or the friendship with the other people, i just dont know what it is. Though I woiuld definately be worried about having to 'perform' in front of another guy...

*dum dum dum dum dum*

Welcome to 'Relationship Today' with out very own expert, Garin.

*crowd cheer*

I'm a swinger - but only on the golf course.

I agree totally with Garin's reply.

I tend to believe if you're having doubts about doing it then its probably not a good idea to go ahead, as doubts can be the seeds of destruction later on. I presume you love your wife, and that sex has a strong emotional element for you because of that. Once you start crossing boundaries like that its difficult to go back emotionally. It may well be difficult for you to look at your partner with somebody else and be detached enough to see just the sex.

I think no matter how well you know yourself, your partner and your friends, you'll never really know how you'll react until it happens. Even if there was only a 5% chance that going ahead would be damaging to your relationship, is it worth the risk still? Personally, I think not.

Having a threesome slowly tips you towards being a swinger - a bad thing.

Ask yourself a new question. If your best mate asked you to partake in a threesome with him and his wife, would you say yes?

If you weren’t interested, would it change the way you acted towards the friend that asked you?

It depends if it is going to be a meaningful thing or not. Plus there is the chance that your mate is better in the sack that you are and she might elope with him!

Slaveunit - Just out of interest (tell me to keep my nose out if you want to) but why do you both want to have a threesome?

Yea my girlfriend is more than enough for me, I dont really need a third person of either sex stepping into the equation. And furthermore, i would feel a bit weird if i was able to SEE my best friend roggering my wife!