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I've just found out something I really didn't want to. Just a minute ago I was downstairs by myself watching All New Cosmetic Surgery while my parents were sleeping, then my dad's mobile rang and I ignored it, then it made a beeping sound because the person phoning had just left a voice mail message.

So I got up to see who was ringing because it is quite late and people don't normally phone at this time, I listened to the voice mail message and it was a lady saying something like "Im fed up with this, you said Sandra and you were finished and you lied, it's over blah blah blah".

(Something like that, im not gonna type the whole thing)

Anyway, this woman was NOT my mum, I know that for sure. And it's not like my dad has someone elses phone, it's his, hes had it for ages.

Now, if a lady leaves a voice mail on my dad's phone, speaks as if their having a relationship and that woman isn't my mum, shouldn't I be worried?

I remember something similar to this happening quite a while ago when I was quite young, I was just browsing around on my dad's phone and found a text message from some woman who had obviously been having a relationship with him, but I didn't do anything, cause I was young...and scared that my parents would split up or something.

But now, it's the second time and I don't think im gonna easily forgive and forget. Im still quite shocked that my dad could do this but im also pretty p*ssed off because my mum does so much for us and my dad, and to think that while my mum washes our clothes, irons etc etc my dad is out there somewhere getting it off with some other biatch.

There is no way I can just let this past me, and im terrible at keeping secrets so i've got to let this out someway. So, I want to know what you think I should do? I knwo the woman on the phone said "it's over" but that isn't the point, who is this 'Sandra' biatch? I'd be really p*ssed off if I find out my dad had more than one person he's cheating on.

Should I tell my mum, get her all upset and risk my parents splitting up? Or should I keep quiet and live my life knowing my dad is bonking some other woman behind my mum's back?

Personally I don't think my mum deserves that, but if I do tell her I don't want my dad to know it was me who found out, I'll have to get my mum to listen to it on his mobile and pretend she was the first to hear it.

Has anyone else been in this situation before, and whats it like when your parents split up?

Help? :'(

Stridman wrote:
> thats why we move house I think (because the woman
> lived near us).

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Was she sending out killer adulterous thoughts, Dawson?

Stryke wrote:
> "Dad! DAD! SANDRA ON THE LINE! Wait, wait, what's that Sandra?
> Oh, OK, hold on...SHE'S NAKED RIGHT NOW...that was right, wasn't it
> Sandra?"

lmao

I told my mum and she has taken it well, she phoned my dad up straight away upstairs and after talking to him for about 20 minutes she called me up and she was reading this thread on my laptop (:D). She thought it was funny that I asked you guys for help, she said FFF's idea was the best.

Anyway, she seems calm about it but I know deep down inside shes p*ssed off. She has told my dad not to delete the message so she can listen to it when he gets home, my dad denied it and said hes never heard about this person before balh blah blah. (Im sure we all know that is BS)

But if my mum doesn't care hes having an affair then fine, doesn't bother me. And apparently my mum said dad had an affair about 5/6 years ago when I found the text message on his phone but my mum forgived him and thats why we move house I think (because the woman lived near us).

I feel like a bit of a prat now that my mum has read this all. I dont know whats gonna happen, guess i'll have to see when my dad gets back.

I hope hes innocent but I dont think he is.

Lean out of the window when they're leaving for an anniversary/Valentine's Day dinner.

"Dad! DAD! SANDRA ON THE LINE! Wait, wait, what's that Sandra? Oh, OK, hold on...SHE'S NAKED RIGHT NOW...that was right, wasn't it Sandra?"

Stryke wrote:
> Heh, this sounds stealth.
>
> See if you can let him know you know without letting either your mum
> or yourself know that you know.
>
> Also warn him about the ninjas behind the couch. BUT, without letting
> your mum know that you know there are ninjas behind the couch.

This is all getting a bit involved.
New idea:

Everyone in the same room:

'Hey dad - someone called last night, asked you to stop f*****g Sandra if you wouldn't mind.'

Stab him through the heart. People reveal stuff when they're dying.

Wait, everyone already said that. Ah well.

Heh, this sounds stealth.

See if you can let him know you know without letting either your mum or yourself know that you know.

Also warn him about the ninjas behind the couch. BUT, without letting your mum know that you know there are ninjas behind the couch.

Let him make the moves, it's really nothing to do with you.
Just let him know that you know - not even overtly - and make sure your mum's in the same room.

I like that idea FFF...might do it when he comes home. If I wanted to tell my mum, right now would be a great chance seeing as my dad is out, but I cant.

:(

It goes like this. (when your mum's there also)

'Hey Dad, you've got a voicemail on your phone by the way - it came in last night."

See what happens.