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"The word "love"..."

Love is just too complex to explain in words. Real love is wonderful, it's an emotion we all take for granted. Now, it's been said on here before that's it's over-used, and they were right. People can say that they love a nice cup of tea, but it doesn't make it true.

Back in October, my course did T.I.E and toured and performed to several secondary schools. We went to each school by minibus, and it was on one journey where I had a slight disagreement with the girl I like. I apologised, and she forgave me. I asked light-heartedly, "Do you still love me?". She replied with, "Love's a strong word, Hibernator". I thought about this, and now I stop over-using the word.

Meanwhile, over this last three weeks, the same girl has said she loves me two or three times. I'm not used to hearing the word directed at me apart from my mother or sister etc; and it honestly feels quite weird. While I don't take it to heart and think that it means something, it's made me question. I asked my friend Lucy yesterday if she loves her boyfriend, she said she didn't know, I comforted her with the "love's a strong word" malarchy. Then I told her I love her, and again felt awkward. I shouldn't, as it's just a word, but I do.

The point in this rant: You can say you love someone, and you can say someone is lovely... but they are two very different things.

Cong_Man wrote:
> Hibey, mate...
>
> I love you.
>
> And I think you're lovely.

*Blushes*

Strafio wrote:
> Now I used to know a girl who'd use the word "love"
> flippantly, but when I told her I loved her (and this must've seemed
> out of the blue for her) she knew EXACTLY what I meant.
>
> So I can't tell you what your girl meant by it because I didn't see
> the rest of it. Did she say it flippantly and then go into something
> else. Did she seem uncomfortable or shy when she said it? Was there
> an awkward silence while she waited for an answer. Did she kind of go
> all depressed when/if you didn't say anything back?

There was an awkward silence both times, and a little glance at each other. Again, it's just one of them words.

Celestine wrote:

> Light.. *sighs* Would you please put forth some effort to
> write intelligently, child..


~flutter eyelashes~

Well I would do sweetness, but you don't seem to be able to read intelligent posts. They're too long for your poor, sweet likkle eyecakes.

HUGZ!!!

"Intelligent" does not mean scrolls of vulgarity.

~~eyelashes~~

Celestine wrote:
> "Intelligent" does not mean scrolls of vulgarity.

*perks up* Vulgarity? Where? ....... Nope, can't see any. Damn. False alarm.

/sleep

Celestine wrote:
> "Intelligent" does not mean scrolls of vulgarity.
>
> ~~eyelashes~~

Vulgar? Hmmm...so...so deliberately attempting to cause upset to someone in order to boost your own ego?

You don't think thats vulgar? Or is it proof you're a SASSY CHICK!!

Yeah! You GO GIRL!! You're a FINE example on how a woman should behave!!

Light wrote:
> Celestine wrote:
> "Intelligent" does not mean scrolls of vulgarity.
>
> ~~eyelashes~~
>
> Vulgar? Hmmm...so...so deliberately attempting to cause upset to
> someone in order to boost your own ego?
>
> You don't think thats vulgar? Or is it proof you're a SASSY CHICK!!
>
> Yeah! You GO GIRL!! You're a FINE example on how a woman should
> behave!!

If deliberately attempting to cause upset to someone in order to boost my own ego, is so wrong..what makes it so right for you? And, I am sassy, because I can be. Don't hate me because I'm beautiful. Like you're the utmost authority on how a woman should behave...psh.

No, I am.
And I say that you should run to the toilet, stand with one leg on the sink and rub yourself like a lotto instant ticket.

Celestine wrote:

>
> If deliberately attempting to cause upset to someone in order to
> boost my own ego, is so wrong..what makes it so right for you? And,
> I am sassy, because I can be. Don't hate me because I'm beautiful.
> Like you're the utmost authority on how a woman should behave...psh.


So; you said you wanted to make me angry? Well done; you've done so. Are you still enjoying it? Still having difficulty typing cos you're laughing so much? I love when you get so self-righteous as you have to reap what you've sown.

Did I say it was right? Am I trying to justify it? Nope. And don't worry; I don't hate you because you're beautiful. I pity you for being ugly to the bone.

Now go on; kill yourself. I'll be happy to explain to your kid that mommy was worthless anyway, no-one liked her, and there was actually a party when the news of your messy death was released.