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Tue 04/11/03 at 15:46
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what do you think about it?

My boyfriend proposed to me the other day and I haven't given him an answer yet. I'm 26 and really don't know if it's the right thing to do. I suppose I need some advise. What is the point ijn getting married do you think? what are the drawbacks and advantages. I really love him, but am scared that things may not work out in the future.

Can anyone help me?
Tue 04/11/03 at 15:46
Regular
Posts: 5
what do you think about it?

My boyfriend proposed to me the other day and I haven't given him an answer yet. I'm 26 and really don't know if it's the right thing to do. I suppose I need some advise. What is the point ijn getting married do you think? what are the drawbacks and advantages. I really love him, but am scared that things may not work out in the future.

Can anyone help me?
Tue 04/11/03 at 15:51
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"cherries....."
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my boyfriend did the same thing not long ago but i looked at it as _no more partying!!!_ just do what your heart says is right
Tue 04/11/03 at 15:51
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"relocated"
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I think that asking a bunch of 15 year old strangers on an internet forum about marriage is a very bad idea.
Tue 04/11/03 at 15:52
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Probably, but any advise helps.
Tue 04/11/03 at 15:57
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"cherries....."
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are you ready to get married?
Do you love him?
Tue 04/11/03 at 16:04
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well i love him,

am i ready...... I don't know.... yes and no..... but why wouldn't i be ready?? I can see us together in the future, i've told him that and i beleive it, and I do want to marry him, but I just dont see the point in marriage. I need some reassurance as to what is the point?
Tue 04/11/03 at 16:07
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"50 BLM,30 SMN,25 RD"
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I disagree with marriage in principal, because my parents married before they were ready and as a result the families lives were made miserable.

HOWEVER there is legal security to be had. If you plan on spending your lives together without getting married be aware of what could happen if he were to die. You would not be a legal beneficiary, and may find yourself without tenancy rights to a shared home or anything like that.
Tue 04/11/03 at 16:08
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unknown kernel wrote:
> I think that asking a bunch of 15 year old strangers on an internet
> forum about marriage is a very bad idea.

I'm not 15.

Anyway, Amanda, advice is all good and everything, but at the end of the day, only you are going to know just how you feel for this guy. You should think of everything you like about him and also everything you dislike/would rather do without. Then weigh them up, and ask yourself if you think it is worth it.

I'm in a serious relationship myself - I'm engaged to my lass, but we don't plan to get married for some time - mainly due to the fact that we gotta get ourselves settled into paying jobs and get a house first.

Just think it over for a bit, and don't be forced into any decisions.
You'll choose the right one in the end.
Tue 04/11/03 at 16:08
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"TheShiznit.co.uk"
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Get married, and if he turns out to be a psycho/alcoholic/loser, just get divorced.

Glad I could be of some help.
Tue 04/11/03 at 16:08
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"cherries....."
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i guess the point is to prove your love (?) but i think that sooner or later you will make a decision of what you should do and it will be the right one.

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