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Bondage Domintaion Sado Machacism (sp?)

A nice little contentious issue nowadays surrounding the bedroom. What many people do behind closed doors is up to them but it's fairly obvious that for some reason BDSM has crept in as some weird little fettish romp.

Now if a seemingly stunning woman wanted to make love to me then so be it, but if she suddenly donned a PVC suit and said "I'll whoop you" I'd be slightly taken aback. Thenn would be the perfect time to put my clothes back on and shuffle out the room hastily muttering excuses about feeding the rabbit.

It just seems a very strange 'hobby' and one I'm not really sure anyone of the non-sadistic persuasion wants to participate it. I see the attraction of the 'gear' but it ends there.

Anyone been indulging in a bit of brazen whoop-ass shananigans ?

Ah well, there's nothing quite like having your @rse whooped red-raw by an overbearing sadist

Bondage Domintaion Sado Machacism (sp?)

A nice little contentious issue nowadays surrounding the bedroom. What many people do behind closed doors is up to them but it's fairly obvious that for some reason BDSM has crept in as some weird little fettish romp.

Now if a seemingly stunning woman wanted to make love to me then so be it, but if she suddenly donned a PVC suit and said "I'll whoop you" I'd be slightly taken aback. Thenn would be the perfect time to put my clothes back on and shuffle out the room hastily muttering excuses about feeding the rabbit.

It just seems a very strange 'hobby' and one I'm not really sure anyone of the non-sadistic persuasion wants to participate it. I see the attraction of the 'gear' but it ends there.

Anyone been indulging in a bit of brazen whoop-ass shananigans ?

Ah well, there's nothing quite like having your @rse whooped red-raw by an overbearing sadist

You've just got your first pubes, right?

Each to their own to be honest. I used to know a seriously kinky couple down in Derby. If they want to shove things where the sun don't shine who am I to say otherwise? :D

Derby fetish night was an eye opened I tell ya...

Fat hairy guys in tight pvc shorts, another guy being lead around by his prince albert piecing...

Oh and the most magnificent girl I have ever seen (one of the couple) in a pvc outfit consisting of a thong and a bodice. Jesus, she was an asian beauty...

Doesn't do it for me, but whatever consenting adults do with each other as long as it hurts nobody else is no business of mine.

But I think you'd be surprised how many women (can't speak for men as I haven't slept with any) like a certain amount of "aggressive" behaviour - I don't mean punching them in the baps, more along the lines of ass slapping and hair pulled etc.
*shrugs*

My girlfriend and I have some handcuffs (pink and fluffy) but thats about as kinky as it gets.

I don't get the whole pain/pleasure thing. I think it's like a "full-circle" theory, in that something is so painful that it becomes enjoyable, just like in the same way something that be so pleasurable that it's un-good. Like the example of communism and dictatorships being opposite ends of the spectrum but they're both pretty similar - crap analogy I know.

There's much weirder things I've seen. I dabble in a little bit of "password obtaining" and work on a request board for "adult" sites. A lot of people are into ladyboys/transexuals it seems, which I find a bit (very very) repulsive. Also scat (pooing/peeing on people) or sado stuff. It's strange how people get their thrills but who are we to judge. So long as they find willing participants in their little sex-games and they don't hurt anyone but themselves, then let them get on with it I guess.

I've seen some pretty kinky stuff, and some really nasty stuff.

The kinky stuff was kinda cool.

Might venture it someday..

*thinks sordid thoughts*

Paradox: wrote:
> So long
> as they find willing participants in their little sex-games and they
> don't hurt anyone but themselves, then let them get on with it I
> guess.

I had this conversation with a gay couple last week. For everyone's "Damn, that floats MY boat" there's just as many people who would be repulsed by it. As long as it's not unconsensual (that a word?) then I can't see a problem with it. You would be suprised by what a seemingly straight laced couple (gay or straight) get up to in the privacy of their own home. Belive me, I'm very tolerant of people sexuality and kinks, so I've heard some seriously weird crap.

[edit] Nope. Warning there.

Cycloon wrote:
> I've seen some pretty kinky stuff, and some really nasty stuff.
>
> The kinky stuff was kinda cool.
>
> Might venture it someday..
>
> *thinks sordid thoughts*

Just out of interest, what?

Pandaemonium wrote:

> I had this conversation with a gay couple last week. For everyone's
> "Damn, that floats MY boat" there's just as many people who
> would be repulsed by it. As long as it's not unconsensual (that a
> word?) then I can't see a problem with it. You would be suprised by
> what a seemingly straight laced couple (gay or straight) get up to in
> the privacy of their own home. Belive me, I'm very tolerant of people
> sexuality and kinks, so I've heard some seriously weird crap.
>
> [edit] Nope. Warning there.

Yeah, but pooping on someone whilst they bark at your ass, that's just weird.

Paradox: wrote:
> Yeah, but pooping on someone whilst they bark at your ass, that's
> just weird.

Bwahaha. To you possibly, but there's someone, somewhere, where that's the only thing they can do to get off. :D